"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Testing for std, questions.

Snap87

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Hi. I am planning to go to a free walk-in std clinic. (1)Just wondering if that same time i go there, will they have results? or will i have to come back another time to see results. (2)when you test for an std, do they test for all stds and hiv, or just the specific std you ask for?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ER!C L!VE

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Snap87 said:
Hi. I am planning to go to a free walk-in std clinic. (1)Just wondering if that same time i go there, will they have results? or will i have to come back another time to see results. (2)when you test for an std, do they test for all stds and hiv, or just the specific std you ask for?
The 'free' clinic I went to was $20+$20 for faster HIV testing results. They'll test you for everything. If you tell the Dr. that it burns when you pee or are having a discharge, s/he'll hook you up with meds that day. Otherwise, if you tell him/her that you have no symptoms of an STD, then you'll be told to call back in 2 weeks for your results. :cheer:

I use AIMs testing now, which gives me results in 3 days. However, it costs $120....
 

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can you test at a regular doctors or not? insurance doesnt cover it?
 

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HIV, HPV & Herpes!

ER!C L!VE said:
They'll test you for everything.
Not for free.

The free or cheap (~$20) screen generally only includes HIV, gonorrhea (clap), chlamydia and syphilis.

But, that only includes ONE of the 3 main ones you gotta watch out for - the 3 H's:
HIV, HPV & Herpes.

These are scary because they are VIRUSES and thus officially INCURABLE. Not to mention, HPV & herpes are extremely common and condoms don't fully protect against them.

HPV can't be tested for in men (unless you're showing symptoms) and the herpes test costs a few benjy's.

BOTTOMLINE is - a free screening is probably going to leave out 2/3 of the STDs you need to be MOST CONCERNED about. Don't think you're fully safe unless you read exactly what all STDs you were tested for.

REMEMBER to beware of the 3 H's!
HIV, HPV & Herpes!
 

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Test for hepatitis C. This is one of the most under recognized STDs. Its uncurable, viral, and transmitable the same way as AIDs. It is also has the potential to be fatal. I am very suprised a lot of people dont test for this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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semperfkemall said:
Test for hepatitis C. This is one of the most under recognized STDs. Its uncurable, viral, and transmitable the same way as AIDs. It is also has the potential to be fatal. I am very suprised a lot of people dont test for this.
Ah yes, forgot about this one...make that the

4 H's then:

HIV, HPV, Herpes & Hepatitis C!

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