Originally posted by MaritimeForce
I rather be a computer nerd with no testesterone that gets his thrills by ****ing with computers all his life and doesn't pursue women because he doens't care. than a muscle head or player who is like a vampire in pursuit of ***** because he is a addict or something that is dangerous and ungratifying. Tell me who is more happier in his end days?
Is this a trick question? Because personally I would have thought that the guy with big muscles leading an adventurous life and having success with women would be happier than the guy with no women, no adventure and glued to the computer all his life.
But if you think computers are more gratifying than woman all I can say is to each his own.
I enjoy having large muscles (and training to make them larger still) as well as playing on my compuer and chasing women (or letting them chase me). They are not mutually exclusive (unless you spend too much time just on your computer). It is good having higher testosterone levels because it increase your ability to gain muscle mass, enhances your sex drive (you have zip without it) and generally makes you more aggresive in life.
That aggression doesn't have to be channelled into bad things like raping women or beating people up it might just make you a better business man or a more driven sportsman. By aggression I mean the desire to take the iniative and achieve not nessesarily the desire to assault people. Testosterone can be used for evil or niceness, its up to you how you use it but in general it is better to have more of it (beyond a point it doesn't make any difference - once all your receptors are flooded).
Of course its also good to be self controlled, aggression and self control are not mutually exclusive (they actually work well together).
The fact is that testosterone does have an affect upon the brain, it does indeed affect how we think and make you more likely to behave in a way that society generally regards as being masculine. Hence it does indeed help you to be a man. The irony of your post is that you sound like you could benifit from an increased dosage of it yourself (assuming you are male of course).
I don't mean to start a fight or anything (well actually I do, its the testosterone in me ha ha) but most self respecting men would not go around saying "I want to be a eunich because I'm afraid my balls might make do dangerous things or even worse be a danger to society". The fact that you can unashamedly state essentaily this (in not so many words) and on a forum like this means that either you have a serious need for the substance which you have such an aversion to or the feminazis have really got you brain washed (more likely both). You are right that there is "more to being a man than just testosterone" but from the nature of your post I think you personally are indeed better off just sticking to getting in touch with your testosterone at this point (and worrying about the more bit latter).
I'm not just trying to be rude to you I really do think you have some issues to work through here.
