Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

**** test?

I

iovannis

New Member
Joined
Nov 22, 2015
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
Age
36
Hey guys, this is my first post, I am glad I've found this forum. Anyway I will keep the story short and on point. I was at work and two girl colleges came to me and said " we are hungry there is a restaurant nearby could you drive us there" I felt there is something off. Something said to me they are playing a game.

I said well you two have legs you can go there, i won't drive anywhere. But they kept pushing me, and at one point i felt like they made it like it's my obligation to drive them to restaurant but i kept joking and said no and walked away. I see one of the girls smile you got ****y.

20 minutes later one of the girl come to me and said we were joking with you.

My thoughts, perhaps it was a joke but if you see it at bigger picture it was some sort of mental **** test in order to see if i would surrender and be submissive.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Berom

Berom

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2015
Messages
59
Reaction score
22
Location
Midwest
Good job.

I will never understand why women do this. It's more humorous to me now than anything. But it still seems unethical to some degree.
 
I

iovannis

New Member
Joined
Nov 22, 2015
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
Age
36
Berom said:
Good job.

I will never understand why women do this. It's more humorous to me now than anything. But it still seems unethical to some degree.
Click to expand...
Yeah, women work in mysterious ways. But that's women nature.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

blind_one

blind_one

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 21, 2012
Messages
648
Reaction score
233
Location
Eye of the storm
Good spot. You get used to it over time. Sometimes they get so blatant that I just take laugh at them straight away , agree & amplify and do a 180 about how she should do something for me. It is a win since you flirt with them straight away while also showing them you are not mesmerized by their facade.
 
G

Genos

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 15, 2014
Messages
233
Reaction score
53
blind_one said:
Good spot. You get used to it over time. Sometimes they get so blatant that I just take laugh at them straight away , agree & amplify and do a 180 about how she should do something for me. It is a win since you flirt with them straight away while also showing them you are not mesmerized by their facade.
Click to expand...
Yes, spot on! Remember OP, the concept here is Amused Mastery. With it, you will pass basically every **** test with women. Be happy, jovial, and always true to what you actually want to do. If you don't want to drive them, don't (and I'm glad you didn't!). Your gut is a great compass in these situations. Don't be fazed by compliments and requests, take everything with amusement and know that you are in control of yourself (and by extension your part in the situation), and just have fun.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top