"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zoned29

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I've banged this chick a few times, most recent two weeks ago. Not exclusive. She sent me a few texts early one morning, typical what's up ****...because she never shoots a text that early I asked her what had her up so early that day. Her response: Brunch with a 10 :)

How would you guys respond? I played it cool, bc tbh I dont give a fxck, but curious how others would reapond to this.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Laugh it off and go about your day because she's an insignificant thing that doesn't register a blip in your daily activities radar.
 

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Ruler said:
I'd say: "Introduce me to her if she's that hot" :crackup:

She'll probably be like "uh, it was a guy". Say "Man i thought i was a player". Just tease her and show no emotional rise. This will frustrate her. The only reason she text you that was to get a rise and make you jealous. Don't let her get to you. She will be more intrigued than ever, and the little "i thought i was a player" will get her thinking about who you REALLY are. It's a mysterious little text that will leave her wondering if you really are.

I bet if you keep it cool and keep banging, she will want to go exclusive.
That's merely feeding into her attention seeking. The best response in this case is no response. A woman's mind is like a blender. It will spin and spin but if you put nothing into it, it will have nothing to process and eventually break down.
 

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Definitely appreciate the responses so far.

Yeah, this chick is hard wired for drama (as most are).

Not long ago she sent me a picture captioned "me and my team out celebrating " It was a picture of her sales team in a limo, and her sitting on a guys lap.

Clearly looking for some attention.

I maintained frame, told her that looked fun and teased her about the obnoxious pink nail polish she was sporting. I went off the radar for four days, banged her on the fifth. day.

Too easy.
 
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