"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AdiFrzo

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Hi Guys,
I got a small question that i would like you guys to help me with,btw sorry my english is not the best:D. Lately when am in conversation with girls all of sudden they start asking how is relationship with my mother? First i thought they were curious, but yesterday they asked it again.Maybe it's nothing,maybe is something.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls don't ask this all of a sudden, there must be something that leads to it. Such as what you talk about before this. Tell us more.


Right off the hand I can see that you are trying to get qualified, by the way you started your post in subject and first sentence. You're seeking attention and approval. It's common among AFCs and BAFCs. Try to quit doing it. Also, a girl asking you that question would indicate your conversation with her leading to that would be such that you qualifying yourself to the girl.

This is a stage you're going through, and you will have to be aware of what's wrong with you before you can fix it and move on with your transformation.
 

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They've been told that how a guy treats his Mom is how he'll treat his wife.

Tell them:
"Mom is just fine, thanks for asking! I gave her flowers yesterday!"
 
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