"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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test? saw another beautiful girl to hook you up with?

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So, this girl I've gone to dinner a couple times with (have been too busy to isolate) says to me that she saw a really, really beautiful girl from the same country I am from on the bus, and that she was thinking that she should put us in touch/hook up.

Is this a test?

I just stayed silent ignoring it for like 10 seconds. then i said, "no, don't do that" and she laughed.
wtf?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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possibly; she's korean, koreans don't touch in public, i've touched her subtilely a bit. i'm going to ask her out to a movie and then i'll know for sure.

and i was talking with this other girl after class and she comes running up, very jealous
 
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Well, if she said it jokingly i would have played along eg with a slight grin "hmmm...sure!" [pause] "threesome?"

Movie dates suck (and i mean suck as in bad [usually]), unless you take her somewhere more private afterwards. How about you watch a movie at your house instead then go in for a kiss and find out how she really feels?

Remember judge their actions, not words.
 
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