"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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test? saw another beautiful girl to hook you up with?

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So, this girl I've gone to dinner a couple times with (have been too busy to isolate) says to me that she saw a really, really beautiful girl from the same country I am from on the bus, and that she was thinking that she should put us in touch/hook up.

Is this a test?

I just stayed silent ignoring it for like 10 seconds. then i said, "no, don't do that" and she laughed.
wtf?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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possibly; she's korean, koreans don't touch in public, i've touched her subtilely a bit. i'm going to ask her out to a movie and then i'll know for sure.

and i was talking with this other girl after class and she comes running up, very jealous
 
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Well, if she said it jokingly i would have played along eg with a slight grin "hmmm...sure!" [pause] "threesome?"

Movie dates suck (and i mean suck as in bad [usually]), unless you take her somewhere more private afterwards. How about you watch a movie at your house instead then go in for a kiss and find out how she really feels?

Remember judge their actions, not words.
 
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