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Test = Sign of Interest?

I have a question about tests - when are girls going to test you??? Only when they are interested or do they test just any guy they meet?
What I think is that if they only tested the guys they are interested in, we could use it as an interest sign even from attention wh0res...
 
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Are you refering to '**** tests'? I would like to know the answer to this too - I would assume that it is a sign of interest - depends if you pass the test or not I suppose.:p
 
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If you're 16 yrs old, I take it you are after 16 yr old girls and younger. Girls this young haven't a clue what type of guy they want. They dont know what type of relationship they want either. I wouldnt expect any female this young to give any sort of test. Wait till they mature. They do these tests for a reason. Plus it comes with experience.


A general rule I've found out, if she is indeed giving u tests despite the above, is if she dates a fair share of guys, she's not going to test you. She will make it obvious (at least to a well-trained DJ's eye) that she is interested.

If this girl barely dates, is a virgin, the usual, then you have work to do. YOu have to create interest, get her to like you. Its not easy. Waiting for IL isn't enough.
 

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Here's something I've always wondered about tests. When a girl says she doesn't want to date you anymore, then her actions speak differently, as in she still chooses to hang around you and stuff, is she sort of asking you to pursue her, and make moves on her, as a sort of test of your interest level in her, or is it more likely that she just isn't interested? I'm erring on the side that she's testing you because of her actions. What do you all think?
 
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Originally posted by Wiesman44
If you're 16 yrs old, I take it you are after 16 yr old girls and younger. Girls this young haven't a clue what type of guy they want. They dont know what type of relationship they want either. I wouldnt expect any female this young to give any sort of test. Wait till they mature. They do these tests for a reason. Plus it comes with experience.


A general rule I've found out, if she is indeed giving u tests despite the above, is if she dates a fair share of guys, she's not going to test you. She will make it obvious (at least to a well-trained DJ's eye) that she is interested.

If this girl barely dates, is a virgin, the usual, then you have work to do. YOu have to create interest, get her to like you. Its not easy. Waiting for IL isn't enough.
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Mmmm, I'm probably going to delete the age as it appears in just every answer to one of my questions :cool: I don't know how often 20 yo girls test, but the younger do either, really. The problem is she's a sunshine girl and they never have enough boyfriends :)
 
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