"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Thinking about this for awhile now. You said last week your to young for love. Is that supposed to mean you do not want be together or what?"

These good for a response to her?
RADIO SILENCE
"Gay"
"Wanna b 85 years old ideally"

Got girls wanting to be with me. But I do like her. Any advice?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sorry, I'm going to assume English isn't your primary language because I don't think anyone understands your post. Can you provide other info?
 

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Getting a lot of this lately so appreciate some feedback
 

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You want to tell her you are gay? Or that the right age to fall in love is 85? Are you trying to be funny? Really don't get what you're trying to accomplish. Given the lack of responses I think others would say the same.
 

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Translating OP's post:
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I got a message from my girlfriend that said: "Thinking about this for awhile now. You said last week that you're too young for love. Is that supposed to mean you do not want be together or what?"

Would these be good for a response to her?
RADIO SILENCE (Just ignore it)
"Gay"
"Wanna b 85 years old ideally"

Got girls wanting to be with me. But I do like her. Any advice?
You're welcome, OP.

Ideally, you want to tell her that if you didn't want to be together, you wouldn't, and that you'd like to see where this goes. Just be blatantly honest, regardless of what the outcome will be. This always works perfectly with women, even if you don't get them. The success is avoiding women you don't want/women that don't want you. The success is not getting a woman. Never forget that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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