"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SERIOUS UPDATE

A new girl came over last night and we had a great time. In fact is was so good when we went out for lunch today she mentioned her pu*sy was sore twice and we did it like 8 times. I was drunk so to be honest, I don't remember much. And that REALLY sucks.


Now for the bad part;

Went went out for some lunch. Then came back to my place again.

My ex must have been stalking my place because as soon as we walked in my psyco EX walked in my door up to my new girl and said "THIS IS MY BOYFRIEND"

The new girl then left

I then basically did everything other than call the police to get the psycho out.


Now I get an email from new girl saying

"sorry but this is going to no where. I'm out. I like u but too complicated and I don't thik I want that situation again. Have a nice sunday"



What do you think???

Should I call her, email her back or what?
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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that was my crazy ex, now you can understand why shes my ex, and i'm in the process of getting a restraining order. what you doin tomor?
 
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Patrick124 said:
that was my crazy ex, now you can understand why shes my ex, and i'm in the process of getting a restraining order. what you doin tomor?

Do you think that my new girl will leave me over this?

I mean she just emailed me "she's out i'm too complicated"...

Is this a **** test or is she for real and I shouldnt pursue her anymore like it's over?
 

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i just read your other post ur ex is beyond psycho
its not over if u fukked her 8 times in one night
contact her ask her if she is willing to work thing's out if you put restraining order on ur ex
 
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Well I can't call her because the psycho ex broke my phone while I was threatening to call the police.

Maybe it's better if I don't call? I'll just send an email.


So I think I'll just give it a few hours enjoy the game and she'll email me back.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dole said:
its not over if u fukked her 8 times in one night
contact her ask her if she is willing to work thing's out if you put restraining order on ur ex
This is the beast advice so far and I'm going with it.

Plus I work with this girl and soon we'll even be working the same hours.

It'll make work alot more interesting!

OH not to mention this chic is just divorced so it's not like she can talk about too much drama or anything.... who wants a chic fresh off a divorce?

as in 1 month!
 
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Any chance that since I banged her so good last night she doesn't really care about my ex showing up? She said we were up to 8 times and she had to stop because her p#ssy hurt. Those were her words.
Maybe the ex showing up builds more interest for me.

And now maybe she wants me to call and say I'm sorry like I did something wrong.
 

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Reply saying, 'I think you're right, its better if we remain friends'. she'll be like WTF.
 
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MrGold said:
Reply saying, 'I think you're right, its better if we remain friends'. she'll be like WTF.

I emailed her this.

Thanks, lets see how it works.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1) learn from your ex's mistakes (which may be beyond any normal human mistakes apparently)
2) stop going back to her when you have no one else, your leading her on. Doesnt matter if you care about her feelings or not, but you are rewarding her behavior, even if it takes time on her part to get what she wants. It can be hard but have self control. If you want her out of your life you would have done this. (and im assuming you havent from your last thread)
3) i liked MrGold's idea :)
 
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Maxtro said:
I haven't had sex in almost a year. What the hell are you complaining about?

Well when you finally did get sex and your ex girl showed up acting like a psycho at your home ruining your chances with the girl you sexed, I'm sure you wouldn't care right?
 
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Mr. Ballz said:
1) learn from your ex's mistakes (which may be beyond any normal human mistakes apparently)
2) stop going back to her when you have no one else, your leading her on. Doesnt matter if you care about her feelings or not, but you are rewarding her behavior, even if it takes time on her part to get what she wants. It can be hard but have self control. If you want her out of your life you would have done this. (and im assuming you havent from your last thread)
3) i liked MrGold's idea :)

You are so right. That's exactly why i keep going to to this EX.

But after this never, ever again.

The sad thing is this new girl was really really cool and I loved hanging out with her.
 
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Well new girl just replied "we can still hang out as friends"

Thats good news I guess
 
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UPDATE

MY BASEMENT WINDOW IN MY HOUSE IS SMASHED!

I think my ex did it...

The new girl is still unsure about me. Says we can hang out as friends. Says she is real upset about what happened.

What do you think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol damn i dunno...deep down all girls like some sort of drama..id just sit back and go into Madden Coach Mode and see how **** plays out haha
 
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Thatfeel21 said:
lol damn i dunno...deep down all girls like some sort of drama..id just sit back and go into Madden Coach Mode and see how **** plays out haha

True they do like drama.

This new girl yesterday told me "its over"

Then I replied "fine see you around". I played it like I didn't care! And now she wants to "Hang out as friends"

She probably thought I would beg for her to not leave me or something.
 

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You got that hoe brah. Play it like you wanna just be friends. Just tell her yo ex can't understand "no" and leave it at that. Dont promise ****. Next time she come over, you gon **** her, if you really want her tell her how you feel when yall laying down next to each other.
 
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Bunk 040 said:
You got that hoe brah. Play it like you wanna just be friends. Just tell her yo ex can't understand "no" and leave it at that. Dont promise ****. Next time she come over, you gon **** her, if you really want her tell her how you feel when yall laying down next to each other.

Thanks for your input. I'm going to invite her over to my house this week.

Today she told me "my ex calls me evry night just to see how I am doing".

She's trying to make me jealous or something. What kind of a loser is her ex if that is true? Or she just made that sh1t up?
 

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She lame, when a hoe tell you **** like that dont try and up her one. Just be like "why you telling me bout that ****?" and sound annoyed.

Aint nothing wrong with him callin her n seeing how she doin, cause she probably call him too n tryna play it like she don like the dude no more. These hoes got game brah, the can make a lame think anything.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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