"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hockey Playa

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i had my first sexual experience on the weekend. On vacation, it was nothing like i imagined. the girl was more experienced than me, she new it was my first time, anywayz, it was 5 am , i was drunk and a ***** tired, i fumbled around with the condom in the dark, and i blew my load withing a minute!i was ****ing embarassed because i had gamed her so well, qualifying c and f etc, now i look like a chump who ruined the whole night, with busting a nut the first min. Anyone elses first experience this bad? i really dont want to have premature ejaculation, could me being drunk and high have to do with it? or just cause it was my first time
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Microphone Fiend

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i thought being drunk made you last longer? lol.

Oh well, dont fret....it was the first time, if it persists over and over...then u have permission to start worrying, but no sooner
 
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