Terrible at sports - turn off for women?

[Humble Young Man]

Don't get me wrong, I'm good at some sports like table tennis and hockey but I am absolutely "terrible" at playing basketball. Once in my gym class whenever i get the basketball the only option is to pass it back to someone else. I am just genetically uncapable of playing basketball.

Once this guy was intending to pass the ball to me but I didn't notice and the ball fell into the hands of the opponent; everybody started to laugh... I began to wonder if being non-sporty is a sign of being not masculine...

I usually see big tall sporty guys successful with girls; am I just too unlucky to be bad at sports? My fitness is below average and I tried to improve but it hasn't worked. How does looking muscular and sporty influence on my attraction game?


humble young man

 

[#41]

I'd rather be in shape and fit than have an amazing jump shot but be 25 pounds overweight.

But, I've also yet to meet a woman that really cares how good the guy she's talking to is at a particular sport unless he's playing either collegiality or professionally.

 

[Idkmyname]

Just lift and jog. This should give you the sport body type you're looking for. Don't worry about any sport in particular.

 

[DJDamage]

Just stay in good physical condition and work out.

A woman does not need to know that you suck at sports, just don't let her beat you in sports because that would be like handing her your balls.

I once made the mistake of playing mini-golf on my first date with this chick who happened to be really good in mini-golfing and she kicked my ass. Suffice to say that this was the last time I saw her.

P.S - Always tell your boyz that you were drunk and that's why she beat you.

Oh and by the way guys I was drunk that day..... I really was I swear.

 

[daygameguy]

Don't get me wrong, I'm good at some sports like table tennis and hockey but I am absolutely "terrible" at playing basketball. Once in my gym class whenever i get the basketball the only option is to pass it back to someone else. I am just genetically uncapable of playing basketball.

Once this guy was intending to pass the ball to me but I didn't notice and the ball fell into the hands of the opponent; everybody started to laugh... I began to wonder if being non-sporty is a sign of being not masculine...

I usually see big tall sporty guys successful with girls; am I just too unlucky to be bad at sports? My fitness is below average and I tried to improve but it hasn't worked. How does looking muscular and sporty influence on my attraction game?


humble young man

You can be bad at sports, if you are good at making love..

Anyway, Mystery doesn't know Sh1t about sports.. still he is world's best pUa right?

All you gotta have is a strong identity...which you project to others in the best way possible.

My personal advice would be to go to gym everyday, and stay fit. That's all you need...

 

[jahidi]

If you're good at some sports, then who cares if you're bad at basketball? There are lots of athletic people like myself who excel at some sports and are brutal at others.

Either way, as far as women are concerned, I think having a muscular, athletic looking body is much more important than being good at baseball or something. Those "tall sporty muscular guys" probably have that advantage over you with women because of their good looks and not because of their three point percentage (unless they're really good at their sport and are playing at a high level).

You're below average in fitness but anyone can get that physique if they work out and eat properly and consistently; it doesn't take a ton of coordination or athleticism.

Women won't even know that you're bad at sports anyway unless you're trying to fuuck your coed basketball teammates.