The reputation for infatuation falls on women, but we know it is really MEN who get serious more quickly.
Women ARE less logical than men, but it TAKES MORE for them to become infatuated. Since you are not brad pitt, forget about it.
So your quandry is: You think you LOVE that girl and might want to marry her, and you want to TELL her, because you THINK that you could lose her to someone else. Then you become jealous, obsessive, and infatuated.
Dude , you are in a seriously wrong place. You could have prevented this from happening by CONTROLLING the dating process. Not it controlling you.
Here's how.
1. Be the kind of person who has female friends. Dont become mr. serious. Be a social butterfly. Get out of the dating 'mode". Only date people who prove their character. By the way, this will give you mystery!! "Why isnt this guy dating me seriously?
2. If you find yourself becoming infatuated, TAKE A STEP BACK. Force yourself. Give it time. If she's the one, it will survive the test of time anyway. One time i went on a long road trip to get away and clear my head.
3. Get back to your goals. Chances might be that you have abandoned them in this quest to impress this girl. Youre losing some focus on your future goals.
4. DO NOT CALL EVERY DAY. This is for engaged people.
5. Take a piece of paper and write down this girls BAD QUALITIES. Youre having trouble seeing them now. But believe me, they are there. Make yourself see them. Take her off the pedestal.
6. Realize that the EXACT stuff you like about her now, you might really not tolerate later. Trust me on this. If she's interesting and talkative she will probably drive you nuts because she never SHUTS UP
7. Examine her baggage.
8. Ask people close to her about the REAL her. You might a thing or two there.
9. Determine that you will not go nuts if she goes out with someone else. This is healthy. If she loves you , she wont have any interest in anyone else.
10. Disengage your ego from her thoughts of you. If she dumps you, you can move on quickly.
Women ARE less logical than men, but it TAKES MORE for them to become infatuated. Since you are not brad pitt, forget about it.
So your quandry is: You think you LOVE that girl and might want to marry her, and you want to TELL her, because you THINK that you could lose her to someone else. Then you become jealous, obsessive, and infatuated.
Dude , you are in a seriously wrong place. You could have prevented this from happening by CONTROLLING the dating process. Not it controlling you.
Here's how.
1. Be the kind of person who has female friends. Dont become mr. serious. Be a social butterfly. Get out of the dating 'mode". Only date people who prove their character. By the way, this will give you mystery!! "Why isnt this guy dating me seriously?
2. If you find yourself becoming infatuated, TAKE A STEP BACK. Force yourself. Give it time. If she's the one, it will survive the test of time anyway. One time i went on a long road trip to get away and clear my head.
3. Get back to your goals. Chances might be that you have abandoned them in this quest to impress this girl. Youre losing some focus on your future goals.
4. DO NOT CALL EVERY DAY. This is for engaged people.
5. Take a piece of paper and write down this girls BAD QUALITIES. Youre having trouble seeing them now. But believe me, they are there. Make yourself see them. Take her off the pedestal.
6. Realize that the EXACT stuff you like about her now, you might really not tolerate later. Trust me on this. If she's interesting and talkative she will probably drive you nuts because she never SHUTS UP
7. Examine her baggage.
8. Ask people close to her about the REAL her. You might a thing or two there.
9. Determine that you will not go nuts if she goes out with someone else. This is healthy. If she loves you , she wont have any interest in anyone else.
10. Disengage your ego from her thoughts of you. If she dumps you, you can move on quickly.