- Put yourself first: do not subordinate your needs and wants to the desires of others. Compromise only when you get reciprocity. To do otherwise starts you down the path of supplication.
- Be the best person possible: Improve your diet, exercise, cut back on drugs and drinking, be productive, learn useful things, toss out old habits like you toss out old clothes that no longer serve you, don’t waste money on stupid BS.
- Be present: Stop worrying about the past or becoming too obsessed with what might happen in the future. Learn from the past and plan for the future, but understand you can not change the past, and there is no guarantee that what you do today will shape tomorrow.
- Be reliable: If you say you are going to do something… do it. Don’t be late for anything.
- Pick better friends and women: Sometimes you must dump old friends and women. If you spend more time with excellent people, you will begin to develop excellent habits.
- Treat everyone the same... with respect: This cost you nothing… have the same respect for the person cleaning your office as you would your best customer. When you do this, you come off as more authentic.
- This is going to be a tough one for many… DON’T LIE: I know it’s tempting to bend the truth now and then, but in the long run being honest always works out for the best. Do not be intentionally hurtful in the interest of honesty, like my grandmother always said: “if you have nothing nice to say… don’t say anything.” But if pushed…. Then painful honesty is always the best way to go. Honesty has cost me more relationships than any other single thing I have done, but living a lie eats at your soul.
- Be social: Try to engage in social activities with others… find something you are interested in and get involved. The best investment you can make in your life in expanding your network.
- Stop complaining: If there is something going on in your life that you do not like, take action to change it. If it is not something you can change, then learn to cope with it in the best way you can. Never verbalize dissatisfaction unless you are seeing a therapist… B!tching about your problems is not something real men do.
- Be patient: Real progress takes time and do not allow unrealistic expectation to drag you down.
I really hate sounding like some BS life coach, but really the key to having better results with women is shown above. Don't allow your biological need to mate over-ride common sense creating long term problems for short term satisfaction. I know that many here are really just interested in banging hot chicks... I know, I've been there... and if this is you then none of the above will hurt you accept "Don't Lie" and "Be Patient" If your goal is to get any many women as you can, then you have to be impatient and dishonest. Happy New Year and wishing everyone here the best.
