pooparu
Senior Don Juan
I figured that we need a basic set of rules BEFORE you guys go to approach, lay, kiss, whatever girls, that ALL men MUST follow in order to MAXIMIZE their success. Will you have NO success without using these rules? No, but you will GREATLY add to your success and take a lot of the "luck" variable out if you do and believe the following. These aren't the common stupid things (you can be as jacked as you want, if you are still a ***** nothing is gonna get you that *****). Since my time away from many months ago, I've learned alot and changed, but when I was most successful was when I was adhering to these rules and everyone else feel free to add.
1. You must love thyself before others can love you.
2. The game must be thought of as a hobby, not a lifestyle.
3. You must put your wants and needs before all others. Selflessness is not attractive. This isn't to say be selfish 100% of the time, but be more selfish than your are selfless, I don't have time to explain this, but trust me, that inner feeling you think you get from constantly being helpful to others even when its inconvenient for you is just another why your ego is saying, "see, we are better than them because they need us". Its a defense mechanism. Ever get creeped out by someone who always wanted to help you out and follow you around? Don't be that guy.
4. Honesty is the best policy. Seriously. If you don't want a girlfriend, tell a girl that. Trust me, most girls out there love it when a guy says that they aren't looking for a gf right now. It not only shows honesty, but presents them a challenge.
5. Don't think of yourself as the prize, you have to be BE the prize. This sounds cliche for this site, but its amazing how much "self help, think this way blah blah blah" bull**** is on this site. In order to BE "the prize" which is honestly just a stupid way of saying being well rounded, you need to get out there and EXPERIENCE new things that you can relate to OTHERS to help them live vicariously through you. THATS what being the prize is. When you can have other people wish they were a part of your life because of "x" action or "y" trait that you have EARNED, DEVELOPED, and HARNESSED.
6. Don't look for an easy way out. I'm tired of people using all these props, tricks, etc. That's GREAT if you ENJOY those, and they are a part of you, but DON'T think that you have to act a certain way to get girls, trust me. This leads into points 7 and 8.
7. Stop looking for material, and DISCOVER material. Sounds the same? No. Searching and looking are you actively trying to emulate someone else to achieve their results. Why do you want someone else's results!? Trust me, when you are out there saying ridiculous things, and slowly adding to your OWN arsenal, you no longer need or have material. You are simply you, and this is the best frame to be in.
8. There is no set method. Period. The proof is ALL AROUND YOU, open your eyes. I mean Mystery Method, david deangelo, juggler, style, td, etc etc etc. Take a look at your OWN life. I bet you have one friend that probably seems like he shouldn't get puss yet gets buried in it, another friend who treats girls like **** and still gets buried in it, and one who romances girls and STILL gets puss. There are no methods, the techniques are simply vessels used to ingratiate the TRUE differences into your personality, and that is once again, getting to the point where your skin fits nice and snug on you.
9. Don't suppress emotion. A woman wants a man not a ****ing robot. I don't know when the idea of, "Act like Pierce Brosnan, be mysterious etc etc," became, "Lose all feelings, and be a stone". Stone's aren't attractive (although the Grand Canyon has a few lookers I might bork in my day
), and neither is you with this solemn expression trying to be "mysterious". Laugh, live, love, hate, get mad, EMBELLISH in your emotions, its what separates us from everything else on this planet. Every animal has some type of brain, heart, limbs, whatever. The ability to feel is unique to us (I don't have time to argue with animal lovers who thinks Rover has a soul.)
10. Finally, and most importantly. NOTHING IS ABSOLUTE. There are no rules you must follow to succeed, you can call me a crackpot idiot and go out and bang three thousand women to prove me wrong, and if you have the skills, you probably can. You guys have to stop having a one track mind, someone taught me this and it has stuck with me. You can always go back and build more attraction or go back and build more comfort, trust me, i've seen it done, I've done it myself. When you stop thinking with a one track mind and instead open yourself to all things, you will notice how undefined the world really is.
I know I need to follow some of these alot more myself, but I think a lot of guys up here need to realize that being yourself is great advice, if you realize what it means, and again, everyone feel free to add.
P.S. 08 = Great, Seniors all day baby.
1. You must love thyself before others can love you.
2. The game must be thought of as a hobby, not a lifestyle.
3. You must put your wants and needs before all others. Selflessness is not attractive. This isn't to say be selfish 100% of the time, but be more selfish than your are selfless, I don't have time to explain this, but trust me, that inner feeling you think you get from constantly being helpful to others even when its inconvenient for you is just another why your ego is saying, "see, we are better than them because they need us". Its a defense mechanism. Ever get creeped out by someone who always wanted to help you out and follow you around? Don't be that guy.
4. Honesty is the best policy. Seriously. If you don't want a girlfriend, tell a girl that. Trust me, most girls out there love it when a guy says that they aren't looking for a gf right now. It not only shows honesty, but presents them a challenge.
5. Don't think of yourself as the prize, you have to be BE the prize. This sounds cliche for this site, but its amazing how much "self help, think this way blah blah blah" bull**** is on this site. In order to BE "the prize" which is honestly just a stupid way of saying being well rounded, you need to get out there and EXPERIENCE new things that you can relate to OTHERS to help them live vicariously through you. THATS what being the prize is. When you can have other people wish they were a part of your life because of "x" action or "y" trait that you have EARNED, DEVELOPED, and HARNESSED.
6. Don't look for an easy way out. I'm tired of people using all these props, tricks, etc. That's GREAT if you ENJOY those, and they are a part of you, but DON'T think that you have to act a certain way to get girls, trust me. This leads into points 7 and 8.
7. Stop looking for material, and DISCOVER material. Sounds the same? No. Searching and looking are you actively trying to emulate someone else to achieve their results. Why do you want someone else's results!? Trust me, when you are out there saying ridiculous things, and slowly adding to your OWN arsenal, you no longer need or have material. You are simply you, and this is the best frame to be in.
8. There is no set method. Period. The proof is ALL AROUND YOU, open your eyes. I mean Mystery Method, david deangelo, juggler, style, td, etc etc etc. Take a look at your OWN life. I bet you have one friend that probably seems like he shouldn't get puss yet gets buried in it, another friend who treats girls like **** and still gets buried in it, and one who romances girls and STILL gets puss. There are no methods, the techniques are simply vessels used to ingratiate the TRUE differences into your personality, and that is once again, getting to the point where your skin fits nice and snug on you.
9. Don't suppress emotion. A woman wants a man not a ****ing robot. I don't know when the idea of, "Act like Pierce Brosnan, be mysterious etc etc," became, "Lose all feelings, and be a stone". Stone's aren't attractive (although the Grand Canyon has a few lookers I might bork in my day
), and neither is you with this solemn expression trying to be "mysterious". Laugh, live, love, hate, get mad, EMBELLISH in your emotions, its what separates us from everything else on this planet. Every animal has some type of brain, heart, limbs, whatever. The ability to feel is unique to us (I don't have time to argue with animal lovers who thinks Rover has a soul.)10. Finally, and most importantly. NOTHING IS ABSOLUTE. There are no rules you must follow to succeed, you can call me a crackpot idiot and go out and bang three thousand women to prove me wrong, and if you have the skills, you probably can. You guys have to stop having a one track mind, someone taught me this and it has stuck with me. You can always go back and build more attraction or go back and build more comfort, trust me, i've seen it done, I've done it myself. When you stop thinking with a one track mind and instead open yourself to all things, you will notice how undefined the world really is.
I know I need to follow some of these alot more myself, but I think a lot of guys up here need to realize that being yourself is great advice, if you realize what it means, and again, everyone feel free to add.
P.S. 08 = Great, Seniors all day baby.