"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ten Politically Incorrect Truths About Human Nature

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70 virgins???? Most of you guys will destroy the inhabitants of the earth for the possession of only one Hor!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Abuse, intimidation, and degradation are all part of men's repertoire of tactics employed in competitive situations. In other words, men are not treating women differently from men—the definition of discrimination, under which sexual harassment legally falls—but the opposite: Men harass women precisely because they are not discriminating between men and women.
Very interesting... but this only applies if they do so with the intent to harass. This would not apply to the chump who's trying to pester a woman into dating him.
 

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If we were designed to be polygamous, then why are we born with a (basically) half chance of being male and half chance of being female? There's supposed to be a match for everyone that wants one! It's only the hormongers that seek to violate this natural order. They often think they are making themselves better off by racking up a long line of hors. These males are only deluding themselves, and they will never be happy.
 
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Obsidian said:
If we were designed to be polygamous, then why are we born with a (basically) half chance of being male and half chance of being female? There's supposed to be a match for everyone that wants one!
Good point! :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the article is awesome.


70 virgins???? Most of you guys will destroy the inhabitants of the earth for the possession of only one Hor!!!
:D
 

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Going by the article, it sould like we not natually polygamous in a way, "mildly polygamous" could easily mean heavyly leaning to monogamy.
 

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If Islam promises 72 virgins upon death, I'm converting tomorrow.
 

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Obsidian said:
If we were designed to be polygamous, then why are we born with a (basically) half chance of being male and half chance of being female?
The article answered that. Did you not understand it and need it rephrased?

There's supposed to be a match for everyone that wants one!
Really? Says who?

It's only the hormongers that seek to violate this natural order. They often think they are making themselves better off by racking up a long line of hors. These males are only deluding themselves, and they will never be happy.
Its terribly ironic that the most anti-Darwinian proponents here claim to be arguing on the side of natural order.

You can't get any less "natural order" than to inject any kind of morality into your arguments. Nature doesn't give a damn about morality.
 

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"Most women benefit from polygyamy, while most men benefit from monogamy"
Correct.

1.) Women have higher social value than men. The average woman has more friends, more people of the opposite sex gunning for her and a lot of consequent advantages from that. Men have higher depression and suicide rates DESPITE being less emotionally inclined.

2.) Women are more sought after than men. The value of a vagina is more than a penis. Women can have sex freely and easily, it's an uphill struggle for most guys. Therefore polygamy suits women, monagamy suits men, since most men are happy with one girl as often they have 0.

3.) Since men have lesser social and sexual value than women, scientists have suggested that in theory men could become near extinct if we extrapolated time forward a hell of a lot. A small number of men could be shagging and making babies with loads of women since they are the ones with high enough value to get with these women and are happy to do so (due to points 1 and 2).

4.) The median 22 year old woman has over twice as much sex as the median 22 year old man. Take into account how men chase all the time for sex and women fend a lot of men off from wanting sex with them! This becomes even more distorted for the hotter girls, god knows, 4/5 times as much as a guess compared with the comparative hot guys. The average hot girl has waaaay more value than a hot guy. Her phone is always buzzing, girls and guys want to be with her.

That's our society for you, feminist as hell and men have become of lesser worth. Women can also support themselves now in the workplace on similar levels to men, hell an attractive girl is guaranteed a well paid job if she has her wits about her. Do they really need guys? See point 3 ...

MM
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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f Islam promises 72 virgins upon death, I'm converting tomorrow.
Anyone can promise anything. What do they deliver?
 

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hah, women have higher social value? in what sense?

Lots more men than women want to have casual sex. So what? Lots more women desire your typical chump for his ability to listen to their problems, pay for dinner, talk to her, etc.

They're both just getting used. That's not value.
 

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Mad Manic said:
"Most women benefit from polygyamy, while most men benefit from monogamy"
Correct.

1.) Women have higher social value than men. The average woman has more friends, more people of the opposite sex gunning for her and a lot of consequent advantages from that. Men have higher depression and suicide rates DESPITE being less emotionally inclined.

2.) Women are more sought after than men. The value of a vagina is more than a penis. Women can have sex freely and easily, it's an uphill struggle for most guys. Therefore polygamy suits women, monagamy suits men, since most men are happy with one girl as often they have 0.

3.) Since men have lesser social and sexual value than women, scientists have suggested that in theory men could become near extinct if we extrapolated time forward a hell of a lot. A small number of men could be shagging and making babies with loads of women since they are the ones with high enough value to get with these women and are happy to do so (due to points 1 and 2).

4.) The median 22 year old woman has over twice as much sex as the median 22 year old man. Take into account how men chase all the time for sex and women fend a lot of men off from wanting sex with them! This becomes even more distorted for the hotter girls, god knows, 4/5 times as much as a guess compared with the comparative hot guys. The average hot girl has waaaay more value than a hot guy. Her phone is always buzzing, girls and guys want to be with her.

That's our society for you, feminist as hell and men have become of lesser worth. Women can also support themselves now in the workplace on similar levels to men, hell an attractive girl is guaranteed a well paid job if she has her wits about her. Do they really need guys? See point 3 ...

MM
we shud abort off male babies at birth until it gets more fair, also lower crime rtaes since most of it is by men.
 
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