"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Temporary confidence boost: Visit another country.

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Anyone who has the chance...and needs or even if you don't need a "temporary confidence boost". Try visiting another country.

I'm not advocating foreign "brides" or the "grass is greener" in other countries...

But there is some definate truth in being the foreigner in another country and meeting women abroad.

I've been to Italy. And I can tell you first hand...The HOTTEST chicks I have ever laid eyes on were all over the place.

Go out to a popular nightclub and look your best.

I never had so many GORGEOUS women literally STARE at me. Talked with a few. Chicks overseas are not only drop dead gorgeous...but can hold a conversation and seem waaaay more down to earth and more in tune with what is going on in the world than chicks in the U.S who seem to think the world revolves around them because they are a Facebook "celebrity".

Chicks in the US have ALOT to learn from their counterparts in other countries.

I'm leaving for Columbia in November and can't wait...Going to stay with brother's wifes family.

I've heard from him the girls are smoking hot....though I have to "behave" myself...lol.

It's a temporary ego boost whether needed or not. And a real eye opener to what you think you "couldn't" get in the states is practically throwing themselves at you elsewhere....Though I'm NOT looking for a bride.

Any other posters have any experience with chicks overseas and noticed a vast difference?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Naughty Ninja said:
Haven't posted here in awhile.

Anyone who has the chance...and needs or even if you don't need a "temporary confidence boost". Try visiting another country.

I'm not advocating foreign "brides" or the "grass is greener" in other countries...

But there is some definate truth in being the foreigner in another country and meeting women abroad.

I've been to Italy. And I can tell you first hand...The HOTTEST chicks I have ever laid eyes on were all over the place.

Go out to a popular nightclub and look your best.

I never had so many GORGEOUS women literally STARE at me. Talked with a few. Chicks overseas are not only drop dead gorgeous...but can hold a conversation and seem waaaay more down to earth and more in tune with what is going on in the world than chicks in the U.S who seem to think the world revolves around them because they are a Facebook "celebrity".

Chicks in the US have ALOT to learn from their counterparts in other countries.

I'm leaving for Columbia in November and can't wait...Going to stay with brother's wifes family.

I've heard from him the girls are smoking hot....though I have to "behave" myself...lol.

It's a temporary ego boost whether needed or not. And a real eye opener to what you think you "couldn't" get in the states is practically throwing themselves at you elsewhere....Though I'm NOT looking for a bride.

Any other posters have any experience with chicks overseas and noticed a vast difference?

Oh yes, absolutely. Ive been to Spain, Panama, Dominican Republic, Peru, Mexico, etc. and the women were much more friendly, sexually open, easy to talk to. No question that game is magnified many more times in a foreign country. And yes being an American still carries weight when you go abroad. That and if you are good looking and dress well will get you laid. In fact you can sit back and let them fight over you.

I would avoid the popular and large clubs because they are usually full of prostitutes and are tourist traps. Instead mingle with the Iocals in the small towns.

Yes, I heard Colombia is quite a trip. You will be mesmerized by the beauties there and the fact that they are friendly and approachable unlike here.

I think if you are just looking to get laid, third world countries are the best bet. Guys I know travel to places like Colombia and Dominican Republic just to pick up and fyck beautiful women. I heard in China if you are American especially blond hair and blue eyed, women fight over you.
 

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I went to Barcelona last week and for some reason there are hundreds of Swedish chicks and for some reason they love black guys. English girls are fricking ugly compared to most other girls, its not until i got out of here that i realised.
 

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Oh yeah, the Swedes take the cake, but local women in Barcelona aren't too bad either. I gotta tell you guys that american women are actually better-looking and friendlier that chicks from Vancouver. For whatever reason I always get this feeling when visiting Seattle.
 

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I went to Barcelona last week and for some reason there are hundreds of Swedish chicks and for some reason they love black guys. English girls are fricking ugly compared to most other girls, its not until i got out of here that i realised.
Yes, Barcelona is a mecca for swedish chicks who go there on vacation and for studies. They go for black guys because its a novelty for them as there are few black men who live in Sweden or any other of the Nordic countries.

English girls are not only one of the ugliest but they also have shyty personalities.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Iceland has the hottest girls.

Funny you should mention Iceland. I'll be going there next September with some friends.

I love to LIVE.

I've heard Iceland has the hottest girls....But for me I prefer Italian and or Hispanic chicks.

You people need to spend less time on this site and LIVE. Go out. Work out. make money. save money. Visit places. Meet people without expecting to "hook up" so you don't come off like some hornball.
 

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I went to Barcelona last week and for some reason there are hundreds of Swedish chicks and for some reason they love black guys. English girls are fricking ugly compared to most other girls, its not until i got out of here that i realised.
I have no idea what it is and why northern and eastern european women tend to fawn over black dudes so much. But I think its a scarcity thing, since those countries can be pretty homogeneous.

But personally I dislike when women have a "thing" for us. I feel sexually fetishized and sure a **** is nice, but Id like to think girls would actually want to date me to. You know, be seen as a person. Meh whatevs
 

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You get spoiled really easily in some places...when I was in Manila I used to get like 10 numbers a week.
 

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Was in dominican republic for 2 weeks in june. Hadnt gotten laid since august '2010 get there june 17...june 19 got my first lay and had sex every night with 2 chicks (alternating )until uhe day i returned (july3rd).

Come here with boosted confidence and last week was able to fvck a girl who friendzoned me months ago after meeting her in a club.(Alcohol was of great help)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tiguere said:
Was in dominican republic for 2 weeks in june. Hadnt gotten laid since august '2010 get there june 17...june 19 got my first lay and had sex every night with 2 chicks (alternating )until uhe day i returned (july3rd).

Come here with boosted confidence and last week was able to fvck a girl who friendzoned me months ago after meeting her in a club.(Alcohol was of great help)
Was there like 10 years ago. What part did you go and where did you find those chicks?
 

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I would avoid the popular and large clubs because they are usually full of prostitutes and are tourist traps. Instead mingle with the Iocals in the small towns.

Yes, I heard Colombia is quite a trip. You will be mesmerized by the beauties there and the fact that they are friendly and approachable unlike here.

I think if you are just looking to get laid, third world countries are the best bet. Guys I know travel to places like Colombia and Dominican Republic just to pick up and fyck beautiful women. I heard in China if you are American especially blond hair and blue eyed, women fight over you.[/QUOTE]


Avoid large clubs? Hell no. If you go with people you know there they will be able to spot out the "working girls". I'd even talk to them. Doesn't mean I'm going to pay them or hook up with them..I keep talking and mingling...The more people you talk to the more people you meet. The more people you meet the more people want to meet you. Expecially if you can hold a conversation and don't come off like an American horn dog desperate to talk to women.

My brothers wifes family is pretty well known in Columbia. And I can talk my ass off. I'll have no problems. (Unless I get captured by guerillas. And never post here again...then you can figure it out..)

Third world countries I have no intentions of visiting. Most American men there are looking for an "easy" lay or are pedophiles. Those "men" get what they deserve in the form of diseases or being robbed.
 
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