"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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(Temporarily) Dropping out of college...effects on game?

kingofstl

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I am so sick of this college B.S. right now. Flunking out of my classes, burnout, depression, I ****ed up my social life, etc etc etc. I'm going to go back home and take a break for the rest of the academic year. I feel like this (working, relaxing, hanging w old friends, one of which is a good player btw, figuring out what I want to do with my life, finally getting treatment for depression) would do wonders for my confidence and overall game. However, I do have holdups...

I'm going to UW-Madison, huge party school. I managed to **** up my social life, being a huge AFC my first two semesters, well enough that I don't get invited to pretty much anything, so I don't see how that should matter anyway. After I'm done with my year off, I'm planning on going to Mizzou with an old friend from h.s. (transfer student as well, the player mentioned above)

Can ppl tell me, have any of you gone though this experience? How does it impact your game? How is it, transferring to another college, starting in your third year? (Anyone here been to Mizzou? How is it? ;) )
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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itishe

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Take time off and work on yourself and your happiness. I dropped out university my first week as I had thoughts about joining the military. I then went back the next semester and completed it. After that was done I didn't go back again. I'm thinking about returning this spring or next fall. In the meantime I want to work hard, save lots of money and invest it, and get in better shape.

If you're not happy don't feel pressured to go back until you know you're ready. College is expensive and I think it's best to have your mind in the best possible shape before you go back.
 

TIC

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If your flunking courses then I would put girls/social life on the back-burner. Even in my worst subject, Biology, I still passed.

Take classes in a major that you can excel in...because your gpa won't recover by barely making it by at this point.
 

Paintballguy

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TIC said:
If your flunking courses then I would put girls/social life on the back-burner. Even in my worst subject, Biology, I still passed.

Take classes in a major that you can excel in...because your gpa won't recover by barely making it by at this point.
Exactly. Get yourself squared away before you are worrying about chicks.
 

kingofstl

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Thanks for the responses. Yeah, thats what I'm trying to achieve, getting rid of depression and knowing what I want to do with my life. At this point, getting d's and c's on my transcript is a bad thing. I'm just going to miss the social life (or potential for one, since I really don't have one), and am hoping that I will be able to still get some of the college experience (when else will there be this many chicks collected in one area?) if I decide to go back.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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itishe

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kingofstl said:
Thanks for the responses. Yeah, thats what I'm trying to achieve, getting rid of depression and knowing what I want to do with my life. At this point, getting d's and c's on my transcript is a bad thing. I'm just going to miss the social life (or potential for one, since I really don't have one), and am hoping that I will be able to still get some of the college experience (when else will there be this many chicks collected in one area?) if I decide to go back.
Stop worrying about partying and women. Partying and banging girls does not let you pass classes and achieve high grades.

Girls will still be going to school in 2 years unless the world ends of course.
 

TIC

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itishe said:
Stop worrying about partying and women. Partying and banging girls does not let you pass classes and achieve high grades.

Girls will still be going to school in 2 years unless the world ends of course.
We'll find out in December 21, 2012. I personally wouldn't mind dying in the apocalypse. What better way is there to go?
 
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