"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tellling a girl you "want her" and telling her nothing?

derby1

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There seems to be mixed opinions on this, Corey wayne is very opinionated on being bold and upfront, "I want you" "get over here and let me give those lips some attention etc"

Yet i get the feeling on here your all against this

However tbf Coreys advice has been 99% cement solid so far to my mindset

Whats peoples views?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would say it only if you have a connection with her.

However, if you tell her " i want you " and do nothing about it... What does that tell her?

Actions speak louder than words.

Action over word
 
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I agree that the system that Corey Wayne's stuff is built on is all good. My problem with his stuff is he has spun it so far away from the meat and potatoes that its borderline creepy and beta. He has done this to invent "newer and better" stuff to sell. The problem is the wheel didnt need invented.

Some guys can pull off the "I want you" with some girls. The average guy doing it to the average girl would be a disaster.

I think that walking up to a girl that you dont have a decent amount of rapport with already (sexting, sensual flirting, etc) and saying "I want you" would be very detrimental.

I can walk up to a woman and within 5 minutes of talking to her I can make her know that "I want her" even though I dont physically say it. I can do that through my look at her, our conversation, etc. And if she is still hanging around and is asking buying signs and being very flirty back, I know she wants me too.

It took me a long time to realize that men respond to things better in an OVERT way. Women respond to things much better in a COVERT way.

If you know a woman wants to smash and tell her that you know she wants to smash, there is a good chance it wont happen because you are too overt.

If you know a woman wants to smash and you reconfirm her decision to smash you in a covert way (kino, flirtatious looks, leading them, etc) you will smash her. Why? She only has to respond to your covert signals and go with the flow and her anti-sloot defense wont go off like someone just robbed the Federal Treasury. Being to OVERT will make her feel slutty and she will run from the chance to smash, even thought she was all for it before you were to overt about it.
 

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If you're hot, it will work.

If you're ugly, it won't work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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