"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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telling the gal you have all the power

PeterCrouch

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I did this today, i said something like "well guys can have the thoughts about hooking up with gals, its whether or not we follow up with those thoughts that matters"

she said "thats true, the balls in your court this weekend then"

so i said "ooo like it, i like having all the power!"

she said "well i like a guy who takes the lead any how"

i said "oh good ill bear that in mind then"

hehe good thing or not?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you say this to a woman who buys into the feminist crap, she's going to try tearing a strip off you. You're much better off just taking the lead instead of talking about it. Women will naturally respond well when the male automatically takes the lead, but will become defensive when he talks about exercising power over her.
 

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I'm disappointed.
I trhought you were going to point your sword at the sky and scream "I HAVE THE POWER" just like He-man
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
:eek:
I could same about your "im in love" posts!

Originally posted by MidnightResistance
I'm disappointed.
I trhought you were going to point your sword at the sky and scream "I HAVE THE POWER" just like He-man
Shh four eyes!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
I'm disappointed.
I trhought you were going to point your sword at the sky and scream "I HAVE THE POWER" just like He-man
Hahaha. Or "Thunder, thunder, thundercats! Hooooooo!!!" While holding your expanding...errr..."sword" haha
 

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It’s like telling the Sadam Hussein that you are planning to bomb his home at exactly 2:00pm 2 days from now. Never reveal your plans to the enemy.

You also revealed a weakness to her Your lust for power. This girl can control you now if she’s manipulative (the majority of girls are).

Stupid.

Take the lead have all the power but don’t tell her about it.

Ninja out
 
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