"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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telling the gal you have all the power

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I did this today, i said something like "well guys can have the thoughts about hooking up with gals, its whether or not we follow up with those thoughts that matters"

she said "thats true, the balls in your court this weekend then"

so i said "ooo like it, i like having all the power!"

she said "well i like a guy who takes the lead any how"

i said "oh good ill bear that in mind then"

hehe good thing or not?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you say this to a woman who buys into the feminist crap, she's going to try tearing a strip off you. You're much better off just taking the lead instead of talking about it. Women will naturally respond well when the male automatically takes the lead, but will become defensive when he talks about exercising power over her.
 
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I'm disappointed.
I trhought you were going to point your sword at the sky and scream "I HAVE THE POWER" just like He-man
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
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I could same about your "im in love" posts!

Originally posted by MidnightResistance
I'm disappointed.
I trhought you were going to point your sword at the sky and scream "I HAVE THE POWER" just like He-man
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Shh four eyes!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
I'm disappointed.
I trhought you were going to point your sword at the sky and scream "I HAVE THE POWER" just like He-man
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Hahaha. Or "Thunder, thunder, thundercats! Hooooooo!!!" While holding your expanding...errr..."sword" haha
 
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It’s like telling the Sadam Hussein that you are planning to bomb his home at exactly 2:00pm 2 days from now. Never reveal your plans to the enemy.

You also revealed a weakness to her Your lust for power. This girl can control you now if she’s manipulative (the majority of girls are).

Stupid.

Take the lead have all the power but don’t tell her about it.

Ninja out
 
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