"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Telling people the things they want to hear

truthistruth

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Telling people the things they want to hear

What did you tell ,what others want to hear

Dont flame me ,
if you are good in this ,share yours
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonGorgon

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If you want something from someone you generally have to give them something.. so its a cost benefit system that determins most human interactions in capitalist societies..

You want to F her? then you have to do and say the things that make her want to let you F her.. and if you dont there are usually 20 other men waiting inline who will
 

truthistruth

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Sales people are Very Good in this
they are not AFC
and they make more money than you
slaog said:
AFC's usually tell women everything that they think the women want to hear. :D
 

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Yeah, the point is to try to "sell" something that the other person doesn't agree with, but you just tell them in a way that has principles that the person has got to agree with.

It's the principle of charisma IMO. To get people do the things you want them to do, tell them what they want to hear!

Persuasion! It's a hell of a long topic I bet. I don't know any examples, but master this art, anything you say will sound "right" and "honest".

For example, one of your friends is lazy to walk you to your house (It's a little far away for him, maybe 5 minutes). You know that he's trying to loose weight. Come on man! Do some exercise!

That's more or less how I see it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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guywhoneedshelp

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truthistruth said:
Telling people the things they want to hear

What did you tell ,what others want to hear

Dont flame me ,
if you are good in this ,share yours
Be fair. Love her, dude. Be true to your feelings and don't hurt her
but also know that you are polyamorous and want more. The idea of having
many girls inmany ports can be wholesomely nurtured.

pg 106 in the game
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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