Telling B1tches Straight Up

[SmooveMooves]

Yoo,

Maybe my mans who said honesty is the best policy, really meant, honesty is the best policy.

I was chatting up a female friend yesterday when the topic strung from the fvcked up society & and the reversal of male and females roles (She's cool as fvck) to the Oh so touchy topic of relationships.

I could tell what was coming, she was starting to get feelings for me. The gaze in her eyes of pure passion betrayed her. However she was aware of my practice of game. How I was with women. (pump & dumping/avoiding relationships/ seduction)

Nevertheless, she inquired,

Her: So you're never going to be in a relationship?

Me: Not any time soon, most women are low quality & relationships tend not to work out.

Now I chose my words carefully because this chick is pretty attractive, I just value our friendship and railing her like a staircase would possibly fvck that up since we share the same school & a couple classes. I want to keep the possibility of fvcking her open, preferably when the semester is over.

She continues,

Her: Yeah I know, modern women suck, it's the media and whatnot at fault. But so what, you don't even catch feelings for anyone anymore, I know your good at reading women Smoove, so I'm sure you know where I'm coming from.

Me: "Catch feelings"? No not necessarily, get attracted? of course. I'm attracted to you if that's worth mentioning.

Her: *Extreme firetruck bloodshot red blushing* So why'd you get into a relationship with Angeline?

Me: A mistake I won't repeat. I mean sure Angeline was pretty, but she was a pain in the ass. I'm only interested in fun & sex, if I was to get into a relationship again it would be only to obtain sex.

Her: Wow.....soooo blunt haha.

Me: Hey, you know I tell it like it is.

Her: Well what if a girls only looking for fun anyway? (hinting she wants to fvck) Relationships are to much work.

This girl is really attracted to me, she's practically agreeing to being used for sex, the idea sounds nice but she's a good friend, I know the right thing to do

Me: *A lecture about how being a woman she's bound to get attached, and how this ruins a friendship*

Her: Not all girls are like that.

Me: Hohoho, but they are.

Her: Hmm fine then...

Me: Don't worry, we shall eventually put this sexual tension to rest, just when I see fit.

I legit said that. LOL

Her: Hahaha okay.

Ever since this conversation a few week back, I hit an Epiphany. I began telling my plates straight up "Yo, I date around to find the best option" or "I'm not really interested in anything more than sex" I don't frame it out of arrogance, shallowness, or ****iness, but out of genuine honesty.

I generally get a good responses, I'm seen as a challenge and women begin wishing to tame me. Also I can honestly say, I left all my fvcks at the NFB (National Fvck Bank) and wont be withdrawing any to give anytime soon.

So, don't really know if this is ideal for you guys or not, just felt like sharing what I'm experiencing right now.

Thoughts?

Your Chick: If I lay here. Just lay here and think would you lay with me as time stops around us?

You: No, I'd fvck you, what type of gay sh1t is that?

~Smoove

 

[GotED?]

Not sure but that ****iness may turn off the more QUALITY women - it may work with the HOs and women who is not seeking LTR that is for sure.

Exodus

 

[TheException]

Your message is correct.....but your method of delivery is not.

It is much more optimal to communicate this COVERTLY to women. Its done through actions such as being laid back, having a variety of female options, not afraid to escalate, fearlessness, ambition + confidence, etc.

Its never really a good idea to SAY things like "I only want sex" or "I have options and Im only looking for the best one". Much more effective if you communicate this through your actions.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Like most things: It'll definitely work on women who are already into you (the girl in your story already was). It's not much different from Mode One, Radical Honesty, or Direct game.

However...

"I date around to find the best option"

I've used similar to this as well; and it can work amazingly well; or it can completely lose some women (especially the ultra possessive serial monogamy women who will say something like 'i don't share men in my life with anyone' - normally with fire shooting out of their ears...)

 

[Bokanovsky]

Whether or not you can get away with this kind of "honesty" depends on the balance of power in the relationship. If you are a good looking, socially popular guy while she's an average 6, then yes, you can treat her like sh!t and she'll stick around and even pretend that she shares your views. If you're an average guy and your GF is a 9, chances are you will be on the sh!t end of the stick. And if you're like most men, you will live with it because you have no better options. If you're roughly on the same level in terms of attractiveness/desirability, your results will vary (and will depend on her personality, level of insecurity, unresolved daddy issues, etc.) You have to calibrate your approach based on the facts on the ground. When in doubt, remember that honesty is typically the worst policy when dealing with women.

 

[Valentino14]

You have to have the rep, the attitude, and the look to pull this off. If you don't, you look like an idiot who will turn any chick off.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Whether or not you can get away with this kind of "honesty" depends on the balance of power in the relationship. If you are a good looking, socially popular guy while she's an average 6, then yes, you can treat her like sh!t and she'll stick around and even pretend that she shares your views. If you're an average guy and your GF is a 9, chances are you will be on the sh!t end of the stick. And if you're like most men, you will live with it because you have no better options. If you're roughly on the same level in terms of attractiveness/desirability, your results will vary (and will depend on her personality, level of insecurity, unresolved daddy issues, etc.) You have to calibrate your approach based on the facts on the ground. When in doubt, remember that honesty is typically the worst policy when dealing with women.

I appreciate all of you guys' input, maybe I'm only seeing results because I'm efficient in those areas you mentioned. I'm an attractive, socially popular Guy, with high desirablity in my SS whilst she is indeed a 6.5. The highest I've used this method on was borderline 8, and she got shaky but eventually came around.

What made me begin this initially was I wanted to frame myself as the bad Guy to make the chick think I wasn't relationship material, since i didnt want to hurt her ie: fvcking he and not commiting, everything just snowballed from there.

I haven't seen a failing yet, so could you tell me what it might look like when a chick takes it the wrong way? Thanks in advance.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Like most things: It'll definitely work on women who are already into you (the girl in your story already was). It's not much different from Mode One, Radical Honesty, or Direct game.

However...



I've used similar to this as well; and it can work amazingly well; or it can completely lose some women (especially the ultra possessive serial monogamy women who will say something like 'i don't share men in my life with anyone' - normally with fire shooting out of their ears...)

So in other words, this is probably mostly successful inside social circle game & not approach/pickup?

Some food for thought, appreciate the input.

 

[nismo-4]

Honesty is the worst policy.

And damn near any tactics will work if a woman is into you, provided you don't shoot yourself in the foot.

 

[skinnyguy]

I appreciate all of you guys' input, maybe I'm only seeing results because I'm efficient in those areas you mentioned. I'm an attractive, socially popular Guy, with high desirablity in my SS whilst she is indeed a 6.5

Stop right there!

This tactic will NOT work for average looking guys, or guys who are dating up.'

Since you are the "prize" she would fack you even if she knew you had 8 kids by different women and a criminal background.

To be honest I'm surprised you date 6.5's

 

[SmooveMooves]

Stop right there!

This tactic will NOT work for average looking guys, or guys who are dating up.'

Since you are the "prize" she would fack you even if she knew you had 8 kids by different women and a criminal background.

To be honest I'm surprised you date 6.5's

I agree, being the prize widens your behavior options, maybe this is why I'm successful with this. However, being the prize is NOT off limits to guys who are average looking or "dating up" whatever that term means.

Social popularity, high desirability, & social proof are perfectly obtainable by "average guys". Be it, an attractive person may have an easier time, but its still doable.

Evidence for my belief in this, is how the ugliest, hideous, fat dude I know dates 8-9's. Everyone knows this Guy & he's pretty popular locally so the b1tches flock.

Now this may be one personal, isolated experience, but the point is, being successful lies in being the prize, not being cute. LOL

I wasn't always attractive I used to be a fat dude.

And this is the flaw of the grading system, its totally subjective. 6.5 in my book is above average but nothing special, however nothing special for me might be for you based on the girls we dated and our personal tastes and standards.

At 7 in my book may be an 8 in yours & vice versa.