telling a woman she's beautiful

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by HuuBinh
-flyinshark-

From experience, it has worked for me many times. The guys that use direct game will understand this concept more than most djs in here because djs and puas come from an indirect mindset

I like this statement. Some of us are direct and some are indirect. Some are both. Pick one and it will be easier to master and will cause less confusion. Me I prefer direct. It's too much mental drama and feels soap operish to do the subtle indirect thing. I prefer "direct and playful".

 

[Cocky-Blond-Guy]

Ok, from my experiance, this is how you can break that off...

First, you gotta find some physical feature that you're girl is insecure about. Say she thinks her feet are too big (lol).

Then, when the time is right, you tell her she's beautiful...

generally, they respond.."I am? Do you mean it?"

Then you can respond something like:

"Well yeah, for someone with two big ol flappers for feet ur beautiful!"

Which generally gets quite the playful response.

I find it is quite perfect.

Just my .02 cents

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

flyingshark is livingproof that you can't trust anybody on this forum. He has over 300 posts and he then makes a thread asking if its ok to tell a woman that she's beatiful.

he probably doesn't even know what the dj bible is!

becareful newbies, pay close attention on who you get your advice from! even if somebody has a high post count it don't mean hes a dj.

 

[Alphathree]

<screaming>

"You can say anything and have it mean anything"

</screaming>

Case closed.

We seriously need audio on this website. It's so critical.

You give me (almost) any line, and I can pick up a woman with it.

In fact, give me a series of grunts, that'll work too.

Communicate emotions, not words... words are just a medium...

 

[flyinshark]

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
flyingshark is livingproof that you can't trust anybody on this forum. He has over 300 posts and he then makes a thread asking if its ok to tell a woman that she's beatiful.

he probably doesn't even know what the dj bible is!

becareful newbies, pay close attention on who you get your advice from! even if somebody has a high post count it don't mean hes a dj.

First, you make a great point by saying that post count doesn't equal experience.

Second, i would guess the difference between you and me is that you are too afraid to put your online reputation on the line by asking seemingly stupid/AFC questions, whereas i am not afraid to risk mine when i have something to say or ask.

Third, i know what the dj bible is and i have read about half of it. Enough to understand the DJ way of thinking. I just am not afraid to go against the flow and i am definitely not afraid to seem AFC in your eyes.

 

[strong like bull]

complimenting someone does not have to be supplicating behavior.

i would say that if you walk up to a random girl at the bar/club having a drink, and say "you have pretty eyes," in the same generic manner all the dorks and chumps do, she'll brush you off.

on the other hand, you could do something like this-

during my relationship with last gf, we'd always shower together. she'd enjoyed lathering me up and scrubbing away with the loofa. and of course i thought it was sensual.

shed always catch me looking into her eyes while she washed me... one day she asked why. so i looked deep into her eyes and said,

''i love how much you get into washing me.. i love watching your face and how much you enjoy it. even more than that, your eyes captivate me. they are deep and blue like the ocean... i gaze into them because i see vast bodies of crystal blue water, stretching endlessly across the horizon. its mesmerizing... almost hypnotic and sometimes as i look into them i forget about everything but us."

and it was actually the truth. thats what i saw in her eyes.

she ate it up and started blushing.

little stuff like that goes a long way. its good to know when a girl needs to be put in her place, but dont get so caught up in the c&f **** that you lose track of reality. i like to tease my girls a bit, all in good fun... but every so often you need to brush her hair to the side, caress her face, firmly place your hand behind her neck, pull her close to you and tell her something that'll make her world melt. all while gazing deep into her eyes... the give her the most intense and passionate kiss shed ever dreamed of.

flirty teasing more often then not... and then every once in a while make her realize how lucky she is to be with such an astounding lover. not just tooting your own horn... but making her see how deep and strong your bond is. how intense and sensual your connection.

to each their own... but thats what being a real man means to me.

-SLB

 

[Sp1kez]

Originally posted by BackToTheMack
she has decided to move an entire state so she can go out with me.

R E S PE C T

 

[nishbuk]

Originally posted by Alphathree
<screaming>

"You can say anything and have it mean anything"

</screaming>

Case closed.

We seriously need audio on this website. It's so critical.

You give me (almost) any line, and I can pick up a woman with it.

In fact, give me a series of grunts, that'll work too.

Communicate emotions, not words... words are just a medium...

Exactly.

 

[BackToTheMack]

Yep nicley said ALPHATREE

 

[BackToTheMack]

Originally posted by 007~JC
Exactly.

If you're going to compliment a girl you can't say "you're pretty, you're hot, you're beautiful" or whatever. You have to say something different and be different. "You've got nice little girly hands."

-007

You can call a girl beutiful depends who you go for and how you say it. Say to a girl shes beutiful the way sean connery does in james bond and watch her melt in ur hands.

But if u just wanna be the average PUA who follows all the rules to the book then dont tell her shes beutiful.

What i can see is you guys stick to the rules to much you treat this liek fanatics treat religion.

 

[flyinshark]

Originally posted by BackToTheMack
You can call a girl beutiful depends who you go for and how you say it. Say to a girl shes beutiful the way sean connery does in james bond and watch her melt in ur hands.

But if u just wanna be the average PUA who follows all the rules to the book then dont tell her shes beutiful.

What i can see is you guys stick to the rules to much you treat this liek fanatics treat religion.

I agree with you. It seems that if someone comes up with something that is against the DJ bible "rules", then he MUST BE AFC. That's not the way i see things and i will continue to ask my "stupid" questions as they arrise.

We have a bunch of people here agreeing that you CAN tell a woman she's beautiful, and provided that this is done in a sensual and confident manner, it can make a woman melt indeed. Now that's a better way to answer the question than calling me names and what not.

 

[i am me]

It depends on the mood and situation. If the girl is thinking, "Does he really like me? " Or if she's just a little insecure about herself on the inside, then it could work. You gotta make sure they feel the sincerity of it though. If they've been thinking the whole time that YOU'RE the prize, and you say something sweet like that, then.....you know