"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Telling a girls she's boring

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Chatting with this chick in one of my classes, wanna let her know her Q's are boring to provoke her into asking more interesting questions. plus, it changes the dynamic, puts her in a position to validate herself.

how would you guys do it w/o looking like a jackass?

"come on, you can't be THAT boring, tell me something interesting for once.."

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sounds like your projecting.
 
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You come across very young.
I think when your in HS or even up till about 21.. talking to women is like that sometimes. Very interview like questions all the time back and forth. What used to work for me was just breaking away from how conversations "should be". I would be the one to be very random, getting her to open up with even asking questions is the key to seeing a womens true colors. get her ranting about her self, you dont need her to ask you anything... more she blabs about herself if your doing it right, she will be trying to validate herself. Women and especially younger ones like mystery, guys who try to hard to "appear" a certain way are easily read thru.
 
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