"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Telling a girl you like spending time with her

SpazzAttackk

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Were on a FWB level (Never had sex yet, I tried going for the good ol over-the-pants-vag-rub while kissing her but she pulled me away and said she doesnt want to seem easy.

Thing is, I actually really enjoy this girls company however we both made it clear that neither of us will fall in love. I want to hit her up, start a convo going and what not but I feel as though im stuck between a rock and a hard place and I dont know how to initiate.

On one hand I do want to **** her, but I can see her getting offended if I were to bring it up. On the other hand, telling her I enjoy her company.. she might think I caught the love bug. I messaged her a little innuendo a few days ago about the next time we hang out and she took it in a good way, said I was funny but I never bothered to speak to her after that

You know, maybe cupids arrow skinned me broke my skin enough for a bit of the love poison to get into my veins. Theres something small there. I just dont want her to get the wrong impression either way. I think when we both said that neither of us will catch feelings, we were just trying to sound 'un-needy'.

Not sure how to go about with this. DJs who read my last post will probably recognize this
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MrNiceGuy23

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Yeah how can you be FWB if all you do is kiss? Kissing is not a sexual act.
 

MrNiceGuy23

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Also, why would you both say you won't get feeling when you aren't doing anything. "Hey let's be friends, not hook up and have sex, and not get attached." That's basically being friends with someone.
 

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What the **** happened to the actual advice these forums gave. LOL

These replies are so narrow minded and.. basic. The whole question was avoided just so you could express pure criticism that is in no way constructive. Id assume first 2 repliers are virgins or unqualified to even hand out advice
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Spin plates.
And don't discuss intimacy, just fvcking go for it until she says stop.

By spinning plates, her not putting out won't affect you as much.
How old are you two?
 

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Greasy Pig said:
Spin plates.
And don't discuss intimacy, just fvcking go for it until she says stop.

By spinning plates, her not putting out won't affect you as much.
How old are you two?

See, this is what I like to see. Straight to the point. Second Year college so fairly young.
 

J Roc

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SpazzAttackk said:
What the **** happened to the actual advice these forums gave. LOL
basic questions get basic responses. There are thousands of threads on here that deal with your same issue. try doing a search and implementing the advice given.
 
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