Telling a girl you like maybe we should just be friends

[direstraits18]

I remember a couple years ago I was just starting to date a girl and she was running hot and cold and I started to chase more. one thing I did that made her do a 180 was say "Hey maybe we should just be friends, I dont know if we work together or not" this drove her crazy and made her literally run to me. I am thinking about using this tactic on this new girl, we only went on one date but this girl is kind of smart. I'm not sure.

 

[dementia]

It's a disqualifier you can use sure, like "bla bla but it's a pitty you're not my type"

 

[Uncharted]

Yes I have done this. It drives them crazy because you are saying you are not sexually attracted to them and they don't like that.

 

[direstraits18]

I guess I could post this here although I have a separate topic

So went on a date with this girl, it went well. she traveled for a bit and we texted back and forth for the couple days she was there, sometimes me, sometimes her would initiate contact. here is our recent conversation via text

-I just landed, my whole life hurts(she went to do a marathon) I look like the tin man at the moment thats how stiff I am

- I'd rather have you be dorothy I bet you'd look cute in the red shoes

- Maybe one day, just not today or tomorrow or the next day

-alright well better or no date #2

- Maybe this week, if we got time. today would have been perfect, i'll figure something out

- I know but I literally am a mess, I wouldnt have been any fun

I ended up just replying "Yah"


Ended up saying " class got canceled, lets get a drink tonight"

She replies fast saying "I wish I could :/ I'm sorry this week is crazy. I need to get home tonight to pack. I move into my new place Friday and Saturday. "