Telling a girl you cant be just there friend...

[PeterCrouch]

Need to get the point across that i dont wanna be just her friend....She thinks thats all we are...

She said to me "If im honest...Im done with guys for a very long time"

Im planning on saying this...

"I think you would make a better lover than friend...Its that simple! I dont do friends with girls i wanna ****"

I know shes not intrested blah blah, i know meet other girls blah blah, dont lecture me about that, just tell me if what im saying would get the point across?

Cheeeeeeeers!

 

[LeviathanIYG]

:nono: If she is not interested you will make her uncomfortable and she will have to reject you.

Instead work on making her attracted to you so she is the one who tells you she sees you as more than just friends.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

"my friend book is full, I have no room for more female friends in my life. I'm looking for lovers, or not at all"

nothing wrong with stating what u want.

 

[Docs]

not at all

And what do you do when she picks that option ??

 

[PeterCrouch]

Forget this post

Lets keep it about the telling a girl you dont wanna be just friends

ta

 

[Tazman]

A friend of mine got the "I think we should be friends" line and he said "that's not what I'm looking for". It worked and he's been with this girl a few years now and they share an apartment. I think she weighed the pros and cons and decided she didn't want to lose the opportunity. However, she's flirted with me on occasions and once she rubbed my forearm in front of him, so I guess she may not be the most faithful girl out there....I'd never do anything with her behind my friends back.

 

[aftershock]

I believe its perfectly possible to escape the "friends zone".

I prefer to make a move ASAP. If she says she just wants to be friends, thats alrite if I know her socially and would see her anyway. It gives me time for her to see more of me.

If shes known me years and she rejects me I've no chance in hell.

 

[flexion_]

Well I think you are handling this in a stupid way but you wanted your questioned answered so - yes you will get your point across.

 

[DJDamage]

She said to me "If im honest...Im done with guys for a very long time"


Im planning on saying this...
"I think you would make a better lover than friend...Its that simple! I dont do friends with girls i wanna ****"

Women always say stuff like they are done with men for a long time but if they run into a man they find attractive they will be jumping on his lap in an instant.

If she thinks of you as a friend, you need to make her see you as more. You need to stop hanging around her like a puppy, she needs to be your aquientence not a close friend. You need to get to the gym, hitting the weights build muscles so she will see you in a sexual way. You need to maybe change your wardrobe if all you buy is cheap cloths. You need to pick up other women and be a very social person so she will see that you are wanted by others and is the life of the party (the more other women want you the more she will want you). Essentially you need to become a Don Juan and by becoming one, this "friend" of yours "might" find you attractive, but by then you wouldn't really care because you are already chasing and recieving plenty of ass from other girls.

DjDamage

 

[Microphone Fiend]

I tell a girl str8 up.
"No thanks I have enough friends"

then after u proposition her if she declines, u pack your bags and leave...thats it. Dont talk the talk if u cant walk the walk

 

[Egoist]

how the hell did you end up in the friendzone??? baaaad move.

by the way, when a girl tells your "i am done with guys for a long time, lets be friends" it basically means "i realy need to find a guy to **** my brains out, but you are not that guy"

 

[Egoist]

by the way, the best way to deal with the friendzone:

-create an emotional storm for her
-withdraw


if you have any chance, she will fall into the trap, if not, move on.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Need to get the point across that i dont wanna be just her friend....She thinks thats all we are...

She said to me "If im honest...Im done with guys for a very long time"

Im planning on saying this...

"I think you would make a better lover than friend...Its that simple! I dont do friends with girls i wanna ****"

I know shes not intrested blah blah, i know meet other girls blah blah, dont lecture me about that, just tell me if what im saying would get the point across?

Cheeeeeeeers!

I might actually us that line next time a girl says LJBF.

Be sure you're so confident when you say it. Literally KNOW you're going to f*ck her that night.

Right on man. Don't ever fall into the friend's zone.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Women always say stuff like they are done with men for a long time but if they run into a man they find attractive they will be jumping on his lap in an instant.

If she thinks of you as a friend, you need to make her see you as more. You need to stop hanging around her like a puppy, she needs to be your aquientence not a close friend. You need to get to the gym, hitting the weights build muscles so she will see you in a sexual way. You need to maybe change your wardrobe if all you buy is cheap cloths. You need to pick up other women and be a very social person so she will see that you are wanted by others and is the life of the party (the more other women want you the more she will want you). Essentially you need to become a Don Juan and by becoming one, this "friend" of yours "might" find you attractive, but by then you wouldn't really care because you are already chasing and recieving plenty of ass from other girls.

DjDamage

Absolutely. In fact, I met this girl today, went on a little walk with her, and she told me that "she's done with guys for a while."

I basically dominated her anyway. Part psychological, part physical (putting my arm around her, getting close, lots of deep eye contact).

I was making out with her WITHIN 30 minutes. By the end of our walk, she was grabbing my hand. We'll be f*cking within the next couple dates.

 

[JHeights83rd]

Why would you want to Get that Point Across?

Do you think that hanging around her and letting her know that youre interested will get her to be interested in you? Does telling a girl how you feel make her feel the same way about you?

Yes saying this will get your point across. If thats what you want, to which i can guarantee shes gonna say something like: "wow, uh umm, you, you and me are friends and ive never really seen you in that way" That convo is gonna be awkward with her plus now she knows she has all the power. In case you guys havent experienced this, men with power use their power for achieving a desired result (making more money), a female with power, because of her emotional nature, will tend to use her power just because she can.

She has the power to flirt with you, giving you a false sense of hope, so that youll jump up and do the next big favor for her. She might send you to Rite Aid to buy her feminine products simply because she can. Other examples of women with power: female cops (dealing w/ them is a b****), beauty salons (constant power struggle between managers)

By her responding with 'i never seen you like that', b/c she said that, she is less likely to come around and see you as more than a friend if you change b/c she has already mentally, directly, confronted the idea of you and her, and she rejected. But if you keep your mystery, that leaves room for her to change her mind.

Shes directly rejecting all the guys in her life right now, meaning that shes indirectly rejecting you. If she was interested in you, (she already has to be interested in you for ur line to get your desired result) she would be on her Ps and Qs, not getting confortable enough to say something like that to you. MOve on, dont say that to her, keep your power and mystery.

 

[everywomanshero]

Who cares. You're fixating on one woman, and that's probably why she just wants to be friends in the first place. You've first got to attract enough other women that you really don't care instead of trying to pretend not to care. Women are very much reaction seekers, and they are going to smell any invoked emotion a mile away. You vocals will give you away even if you try to brace for this over the tele. You just go and **** other women. That is the only real hope you keeping your self esteem. Selling yourself out, even though it has a very small chance of working, isn't worth it.

 

[Badmannaz]

THIS MIGHT B A TEST!!
the girl i'm dating right now tried to LJBF me b/c im younger than her
don't even say that word around her...you have to express your feelings to her early before you guys are friends...for a long time by then it's impossible
girls say that sometime b/c guys have hurt them and they don't want that happening again...tell her how you plan on treating her...but the friend thing is out of the question if you are not together

 

[AmIAFC]

Women seldom mean what they say.

I guarantee you that if she saw you hanging out with another girl, preferably an attractive one, or many of them she'd try to lift you from that "friend zone."