"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tell us about the biggest biotch you ever dated...

pimpdatass

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So all of us has had at least one gf or someone we dated who was a total *****. Seriously..this is the person who you wish would get ran over by a car..she pissed you off so much.

Lets hear about it!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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wowiehowie

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Well, one does come to mind. She was a b!tch and a cVnt all rolled up into one. She had entitlement issues, was a spoiled brat that was enabled by her cVnt mother, was extremely insecure, and needy in subtle ways. However, since then I did some research on her "behavior" patterns and related things. Turns out that she most likely has a wicked "****tail" of co-morbid personality disorders: Bi-Polar, BPD, PTSD, and the list goes on.

All that having been said, a truly understanding person would forgive them and "give 'em a pass". But, it's still hard to forgive and forget. Who know's, was her behavoir conscious, semi-conscious, unconscious? At this point I don't know and don't care. I'm happy that the B!TCH is outta my life
 

r_j_goebel

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my last ex

my last girlfriend had some serios psych issues.. when she was in high school she was with a 33yr old teacher at her school! she sexed him a lot and thought she was in love but then gave it up after HS. She had a mom that had 3 kids to 3 different guys and never had a dad so maybe that was a way to compensate? The human mind can do some crazy ass ****. Needless to say when I found out about that shi*t the relationship quickly went sour.
 

backbreaker

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As successful as I am now with women, there is one girl that gives me chills to this day as for how much of a **** she is.

When I was 17, I had just gotten out of a 6 month relaionship. I was working at Best Buy, and there was this new girl, who was cute, pretty cute actually, but I had just gotten out of a relationship, and the last thing on my mind was dating her.

Long story short, I was being a challange without even knowing it. She asked for my phone number and I said No. when I finally gave it to her I dodged her calls. She asked me one day to go to a party with her and her friends, and I agreed, and when she picked me up, she took me behind a target and tried to **** me... to her suprise I threw her off of me, got out and walked home.

She only came back stronger... She invited me to the movies one day, valenties day actually and we were sitting in the movies and I, for some reason, ,looked at her and said tomself "i'm going to **** her", so out of the blue I started kisisng her on her earlobe and she went crazy.

So for the next month, non stop sex. Note, we aren't dating.. just friends with very good benefits.

She would come over my house and cook breatkfast for me, ,pick me up and take me to work (I had a car... actually better than hers), blow me at work, give me money (I made alot more than she did, about 5 dollars per hour more).

I played HS basketball... she actually was a cheerleader at a different school.. She actually quite Cheerleading to come watch me play! I mean, i was pretty good, but damn.

So one day I decided that her and I got along great, and decided to date her.

Boy boy boy, where to I start.

She went from happy to see me, to asking why I "stalked her" in 2 weeks. She used to throw ***** at me, we didn' thave sex 1 time while we dated (a little over a month).

One day, driving though her neighboorhood going somewhere, I decided to stop by her house, and say hi. She answered the door and cursed me out ,and went to work tellign everyone I stalked her.

I couldn't buy time with her, she was always "hanging out with friends.. at first I didn't mind, I mean ,they are her friends, but after like 3 weeks, I said something and she called me inconsiderate"

However the killer is, when we first got together, she said she wanted to go 1 month without sex, to see if we really had something... All of her friends told her she was making a mistake, I told her but I can go a month, so I said whatever, if that's what you want (i was an AFC)... 1 month later she ended up cheating on me saying, we just dont' have a connection anymore... (maybe becasue you killed it)


However, all things happen for a reason. it was though her I met the girl that actully brogut me to this site. Even she admits she was stupid for doing me the way she did (Even htough I never asked).

She just turned 21...Damn, today.. how ironic. She is dating a 16 year old now.. I saw her about 3 months ago for the first time since we worked together. That is the one girl I wish nothing but bad **** happens to, and I am a good person.. she just really, really got under my skin.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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