"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tell me your incidents of getting laid

moneyisking

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Although, I have been roaming around this forum for 3 yrs, I reckon that I still have no idea how people get laid (as funny that might sound like).

Basically in my opinion, people get laid by:

1. cold approach--->ask number--->go out--->have fun--->fvck

2. meet her as your friend's friend--->hook up--->fvck

3. go out club--->hook up with random chick--->fvck

4. regular good ole boyfriend/girlfriend relationship--->fvck


how do you guys do it? I would like to hear more of ways you guys bang women. i had the luck of having the option of #2.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jariel

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Here's something that has been working for me a LOT during the past year.

Either I meet a girl via friends, in a bar (rare), random add on Facebook or from a dating site like POF. I start chatting, politely asking a bit about her and just striking up a general rapport.

If it's an internet exchange, I'll ask her to drop me a text some time and leave my number. I continue chatting to her via text for a while, but gradually throw in some cheeky innuendos and flirting. Eg.

Girl says she's cold. I offer to come and keep her warm.
Girl talks about the gym or exercise. I tell her I can think of more exciting ways to raise a sweat.
Girl says she's in bed, or I tell her I'm in bed then add "it's a shame you're not here with me, although I don't think we'll be doing much sleeping."

If she responds well to this, I push it further. And if she responds or asks me what I would do to her, I start engaging in some text/phone sex.

By the time I meet with this girl she's turned on and is like putty in my hands. I do the dating thing, chat politely and when I sense that we're getting on and there's rapport, I start bringing up the text messages. Sometimes I'll tease her by trying to blame her for starting the messages, saying "I can't believe you lured me into such a sordid conversation" or "All I wanted was an innocent chat and you had to turn it sexual." It's plain sailing from there.

I'll kiss her at some point and suggest going somewhere private. Either my place or her's if we're close by. In a couple of instances I just took girls for a ride in the car, found somewhere secluded and we got it on there.
 

mark123

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Jariel said:
Here's something that has been working for me a LOT during the past year.

Either I meet a girl via friends, in a bar (rare), random add on Facebook or from a dating site like POF. I start chatting, politely asking a bit about her and just striking up a general rapport.

If it's an internet exchange, I'll ask her to drop me a text some time and leave my number. I continue chatting to her via text for a while, but gradually throw in some cheeky innuendos and flirting. Eg.

Girl says she's cold. I offer to come and keep her warm.
Girl talks about the gym or exercise. I tell her I can think of more exciting ways to raise a sweat.
Girl says she's in bed, or I tell her I'm in bed then add "it's a shame you're not here with me, although I don't think we'll be doing much sleeping."

If she responds well to this, I push it further. And if she responds or asks me what I would do to her, I start engaging in some text/phone sex.

By the time I meet with this girl she's turned on and is like putty in my hands. I do the dating thing, chat politely and when I sense that we're getting on and there's rapport, I start bringing up the text messages. Sometimes I'll tease her by trying to blame her for starting the messages, saying "I can't believe you lured me into such a sordid conversation" or "All I wanted was an innocent chat and you had to turn it sexual." It's plain sailing from there.

I'll kiss her at some point and suggest going somewhere private. Either my place or her's if we're close by. In a couple of instances I just took girls for a ride in the car, found somewhere secluded and we got it on there.
that's pretty much the way I go about hooking up with women too. Prefer to get # online - text for a few days, build anxiety etc and THEN meet her.
Jariel, can you offer some tips on how and when exactly do you begin flirting? Before the first date straightaway, or after the first date? if you could PM/email me some things you write in your emails that work for you, that would be SO helpful....I feel like I try TOO hard to be funny...
i've noticed sometimes I go overboard with the length of my email and that's when chicks stop replying..
thanks man..
 

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how do you guys do it?

Pick out the girls who are lonely. They're easy. All you have to do is pick up on the subtle cues a woman gives, ranging from a simple smile to one girl I saw tonight on facebook who posted that she had a great evening but it would have been better with a man. Women these days get less subtle all the time.
 
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