Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Tell me why I shouldn't just fap to porn

Dhoulmagus

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Porn
Can watch it any time
No effort required
No risk of stds
No risk of emotions and ***
Always there as long as armegadon doesn't happen

Girls
Could take a millenium to find
A lot of effort and tough skin to go through
Risk of stds
she comes with drama, emotions, and everything
Could be a ons or longer. Depending on whenever you or her drop out
At least you can say you had sex
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NeverChase

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Who said you shouldn't ? Stay home and fap to porn every night if you like it.
 

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I just broke my 5 months fap challenge, im starting again tommorow I like the feeling of being challenged better then beating my meat
 

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The feeling after sex tends to make me more confident and women seem to pick up on that. If you beat off and watch porn too much it will skew your expectations of real women and sex as well as diminish your desire to meet women, so that when you do actually have the chance to get laid you might not even get aroused (or be able to). My 2 cents: fap only once a week without porn only after you have made some sort of attempt to approach women throughout the week.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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-It distorts your reality of what sex is like, and what it should be like

-You're wasting energy on time for temporary pleasure

-Your semen contains protein, vitamins, minerals and nutrients. Zinc is being depleted during ejaculation which is rare to obtain in natural food. Zinc is also the keystone for testosterone growth.

-If you're going to masturbate, then it's best to do it with your imagination.

-You are literally jerking off to a guy f***ing a girl you wish you were f***ing. You might as well consider yourself as a cuckold. In gorillas, all the beta gorillas would watch and jerk off while the alpha silverback gorilla would mate with the female.

-You look ridiculous jerking off. You should see yourself jerking off in third person perspective to see how ridiculous you look.
 

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Because you don't want to be a fvckin lame?
 

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Tell me why I shouldn't just fap to porn
uhhh... yeah I got nothin'

The more real porn becomes, the more dudes are going to be "dropping out" from the mating market.

The HD 60FPS POV stuff is truly remarkable (provided the girl is young and doesn't have too many blemishes). I can't imagine what the next generation's porn will be like.
 

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Zarky said:
I can't imagine what the next generation's porn will be like.
You will probably put on a virtual reality helmet that hooks up to a fleshlight of your favorite pornstar and special gloves, and you will be in the scene with the girl.

Reminds me of a scene in minority report, great movie btw..
 

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Zarky said:
The more real porn becomes, the more dudes are going to be "dropping out" from the mating market.
Our resident woman troll has a point here.

Food for thought:

Suppose every man was 100% completely satisfied with porn and never needed a woman for sex. What would happen to womens' general value to society after that?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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skinnyguy

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I was addicted to porn for 10 years.

It made me depressed. I try now not to fap at all.

At the end of the day you'll still want puss and porn isn't a good substitute. You'll still want companionship and sex even if porn gives you the best orgasm.
 

hop On hop Off

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All things worth it takes time and hard work.

There is take the easy path, you relax yourself now, you pay the heavy price later.

There is also the hard path, you work very hard now, and the harvest will come to you at a later time.
 

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And potentially porn costs less then the expenses that goes with wooing a girl into bed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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