Tell me what you think about this idea for Valentine's Day to get the girl back.

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Alright, some of the semi-older people here know about me a bit... Well I'll just say

Me and a girl started seeing each (never dated) other May 2005 while I had a girlfriend. We go to different schools. She knew I broke up with that girl for her. We were seeing each other for 6 months (around spring to the end of summer). I was shy (hugged her only once, never kissed), insecure and never believed that she really DID like me (which she really DID). She gave up on me once, twice, then a third time after I took her to Homecoming. We haven't spoken for about 5 months.

I'm sure she can like me again, and I asked many girls if this happened to then, if they would ever like guy again. They said they most likely would... if he ever came back and started talking to her again.

I know what you're thinking: "NEXT HER ALREADY! IT'S BEEN 5 MONTHS!"

No. I'm not going to stop. I already tried stopping for the past 5 months, but no, I'm not going to stop. I might as well get some closure since we haven't spoken since Homecoming. Closure will help, if anything gets better... me and her will be together once-and-for-all.


But what the plan is... is to leave during lunch period, or after school, take a letter of apology for how I acted, etc., Maybe like 6 or 11 roses to her place and a note for her to call me back if she wants the last 6 roses or last 1 rose to make it a dozen (something corney, but good like that). If you get my drift, I don't feel like typing too much anymore. We'll make up (hopefully), but if not, I tried, and I finally (FINALLY!) have closure, and I'll know how she feels by now.

Just tell me if this is a good idea, or if it's not, don't try being cool and bashing someone down.

 

[penkitten]

what happens when you spend $$$ on roses and write a sappy card and she is standing there with her new boyfriend?

unless you know shes single, it might not be worth it.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Yeah, I'm sure she doesn't have a boyfriend.

Don't like the idea? Oh well, ha, I'm going to do it anyways. Might as well try it and see what happens.

Remember how they teach not to think of all the negative possibilities? Asking all of these girls at my school, and their responses are giving me positive possibilities. I'll try it anyways... might as well, right? After this, It's not like I'll ever see her again if she says "no". But she won't.

Thanks for your honest feedback

 

[MetalFortress]

Let me get this straight. You 'were seeing' her for six months, and never kissed her, and only hugged her once?

And now you want to give her a dozen roses, and apologize for something you didn't even specify in this post, because apparently, begging is sweet?

Get off my land. Closure is for women. She thinks you're a pvssy cuz you didn't make any moves, and you're turning yourself into an even bigger pvssy in her eyes by doing this.

 

[MightyMate]

'take a letter of apology for how I acted' - Nah.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Guys, guys, guys. Think out of the box for a minute! Stop reading all the typical things!

If THAT is a puss thing to do... what about going to her school and giving the 11 roses then to her in her last period class, and have the note saying, meet me after school (her school ends 1 hour after mine)? Would a puss do that? Just because I can be "sweet" doesn't mean I'm a puss!

C'mon now, quit taking the "bible" TOO serious. That what the terrorists are doing, they are taking their Koran too seriously! Stop.

I'm sure gonig to her school, giving it to her in person, showing the "mystery" by giving it and walking off before she can say too much or anything... will be a good thing. She'll see me as a totally different person... and hopefully in a good way. It'll bring the mystery back between us.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

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[Morphiex]

hmm going up to her with dozen roses and a LETTER!!! ??? this isent a ****ing b-movie starring a talentless dd boobjob like jessica simspon, that will go awwwwe and kis you romanticly infront of everyone at shcool.....

get your head straight , **** like that dont happen in real life....

instead of going up to her in shcool , making her feel really imbarresed , how about you just go up to her when shes home with a single rose in your hand , say : ive been thinking alot about us and i think we should give it another go , weve both grown up and i think we are ready to say what we really think.... or sumthing like that....

oh and the reason she probably lost interest with you is that u didnt make any moves on her , u only hugged her once in 5 months ?????

and when girls say that they consider taking back a guy , they dont mean someone they hugged once in 5 months and never really know , they mean ex-boyfriends that were together for like 3 months or so with a emotional and physical relationship.....

ANd its been 5 months the chances are that shes either gotten over you ,and got a real boyfriend , or that shes lost complete interest in you and moved on.....

sorry but u got to open your eyes , and stop livin in this romantic fluffy cloud , lets all hug, after shcool special kind of world.....

 

[Canibus27]

She probably has gotten over you. 5 months is a long time, who knows who she's could of met, or doing right now. I wouldn't risk it unless I did some research, i.e. talking to her close friends. I wouldn't goto her school, I would wait till she gets home, but it might seem like a stalker, I mean you haven't talked in 5 months. If someone did that to me, I would be a little creeped out.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Gawd you annoying. Dont give her flowers, chocoalate or buy her anything. Youre not her bf and you dont even know if she gives a damn if youre still alive. Simply start talking to her again. Giving her something isnt being sweet its being a *****. This has nothing to do with the bible, it has everything to do with self respect, which you have none of. Youre an AFC dude. Why do you think giving her flowers would make her like you? Gawddamn, GROW SOME FVCKIN BALLS!

EDIT: How do you know that she doesnt have a bf?