"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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seattlesingle

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i was seeing this hb4 for 3 months and we broke up after she accused me of cheating. bout 2 days later i started kicking it with this hb9. i swear this girl was diggin me. we have a lot in common and she flirts with me. but the hb4 and her friends started to kick it with hb9 and her friends and all of a sudden i'm outta the picture. but i don't want to hang with hb9 if hb4 is there. you guys think the hb4 talked sh!t about me? i'm thinkin that and i confronted her about it but she denied it. btw the hb4 had a fiance in iraq when we started, and b!cth has the nerve to accuse me of cheating. neways should i move on from hb9?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Does HB9 know that you dated HB4?

Invite HB9 out on a fun date only once and if she declines then don't make an attempt again - wait until she contacts you, if ever!

Don't ask her about the other girl or why she doesn't want to go out - this will make you look weak!!
 

WaterTiger

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Oh YES she did!

I'll bet you $10. the HB4 c0ckblocked the HB9! She told her how mean & nasty you were out of sheer revenge. She'll do it again if she gets the chance so make sure that your next GF doesn't know her!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Caveman

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Originally posted by seattlesingle
hb4
:rolleyes:

Yes, she talked sh!t about you. You hurt her ego and she'll take revenge by cb-ing you. Not much you can do about it esp if it is true you cheated on her. Girls will think twice before starting to date you.
 

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thanks for the advice fellas, but it's the weird the hb9 texted me like 12 times yesterday so i'm pretty sure she likes me.

need to get this off my chest. i caught the hb4 talking **** about me the other night at the beach. and no i wasn't hanging out with her. i invited the hb9 down to hang out or whatever. then her roomate invited the hb4 down (roomate and hb4 work together) anyways i was talking to the hb9 and she invited us back to her house for an after party.

so i got some alone time (but not much) with her to talk. but like 2 minutes later hb4 showed up and started creating drama. she started screaming how i was a faggot and had a small d!ck. i was like i got you on camera when we were fvcking, and we know i ain't gay or have a small c0ck. but she wouldn't shut up. i was inches for beating her but thankfully my buddies pulled my drunk ass away.

last night i'm at this party and all of a sudden hb4 shows up. starts talking sh!t again. but i kept my cool. thanks for listening guys.
 
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Originally posted by seattlesingle
hb4 showed up and started creating drama. she started screaming how i was a faggot and had a small d!ck.
The obvious solution here is to kill this HB4 hor and your problem is solved!!
 

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Just date HB9, completely ignore HB4.

If some weird coincidence happens where HB4 again gets invited to what you're doing just leave. It's that simple. HB4 is history. There is no discussion, and don't even worry about what she might be saying. Who gives a damn, just focus on the prize.
 
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