"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CarlitosWay

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BigJimbo said:
Strictly for clinical purposes. Get your mind out of the gutter.

Just wanted to see how much his chest is developed. If it is tight. If there is a nice hard cut to it. The smoothness. The skin tone. Totally clinical. If you can't tell I suspect you might be the gay one.

BTW, stretched out on a waterbed with boxers on wouldn't hurt either.
Yeah don't forget, a little baby oil on his skin too, BigJimbo, just so we can better see any muscle definition.;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JustLurk

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CarlitosWay said:
Yeah don't forget, a little baby oil on his skin too, BigJimbo, just so we can better see any muscle definition.;)
xD They're kidding dude. Just shirtless is fine, or if that's bad a description of how muscular/fat you are on a scale of 1 to 10.

You guys are kidding, right? Right??? :eek:
 
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