"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tell me if this is right, or if i'm just gonna come across gay

imleashedup

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a girl tells me to come slide down this giant hill, so i go and its 3 girls and one other guy and the 3 girls are down at the bottom of the hill mud fighting and the guy is just standing there so i slide down and start mud fighting mainly with the girls that aren't the "mark". but anyways during all of this and the showering everybody off in the hose i was mainly flirting with everybody else even my "competition" aka the other guy. but afterwards i thought that flirting with the other guy might have made me look gay. it wasn't any "hey boy you look sexy ****", it was just like ****y funny stuff and i sprayed him down with the water hose too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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chill out

Dude, just chill out

If you are secure enough in your sexuality to joke around with a guy, thats great stuff.
 

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There's this guy I know who is totally straight but he acts very very gay. He talks about fashion a lot and jokingly flirts with guys... dresses really nice/clean... you would totally wonder about his sexual orientation if you met him randomly (I know I did at first)... but he seriously gets any girl he wants. Be comfortable with who you are and don't worry about what others think.
 
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