Tell me I did the right thing! lol

[MrSpiffy]

Last night I already had plans with the guys to go see a basketball game, but this girl im interested in called me up and wanted to know if i wanted to do something. I really wanted to screw around with her, but played it like i wasnt really interested. The convo went something like this-

Her: Hey
Me:Hey
Her:Wanna do something tonight?
Me:No, im going to a basketball game
Her:I wanna come
Me:No room
Her:Fine, be that way
Me:Gota bounce, later

My inner, not completely removed, AFC side keeps second guessing my choice. I think I did the right thing, what do you guys think? Was I too blunt/harsh, or did i make a stand and portray that i have things to do, and that im not too interested?

What would you have done in a similiar situation?
Thx

 

[joey37]

You did fine, if she's interested, you probably raised her IL, if she's not, then who cares?

 

[Ice Cold]

You did the right thing.

Now go fukk that girl

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Should have been a BIT nicer but ye good.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

This is a common Doc Love tactic. If a chick asks you out for the weekend tell her no (your busy on the weekends) and raise her IL by temporarily rejecting her now call her up and get her.

 

[RandomGuy]

I think it woulda be better if you counter offer next tuesday night.

If her interest level was really high to begin with and you rejected her chances are her IL is going to go lower.

If it was moderate IL to start with, then you'd prolly increased it.

but I don't think a girl with moderate interest level would call you up on weekends and ask you out like she did. Unless of course you are in the friendzone and she needs to use you temporarily while her bf is out of town.