Tell me how to succeed post getting the number

[KneghtRyder]

i got a number yesterday,

so i m thinking of calling her today....

so I set up something for this weekend lke saturday and sunday.. is that correct ?

so I guess just het mer and just make it a good time

and hope shes attracted enough or if she has a good time enough she'll

want to see me again..


the feeling I get is that she likes the big masculine, manly confident guys..

any suggestions...

 

[Mad Manic]

When I went out sarging often (i.e. before it got cold) I used to chat up quite a lot of girls and get quite a decent amount of numbers from HBs 6-9. However, I only met up with a few, I think my phone game wasn't tight. Then again there's always the argument that if she's super into you she'd meet up whatever you text, but realistically that's unlikely with guys after her, and her high standards as a 'woman'.

I then watched some stuff on youtube regarding phone game by two good PUAs, it's the first time I've found anything practical regarding phone game. They basically said that guys will often ask the girl out in the 1st text and the girl says no or starts to play games.

What these guys suggested (from experience) was that they text something first to test the water by provoking her to respond. Like 'Hey there, you know I saw this thing that totally reminded me of you, wanna guess what it was? :-D". Once she complies with that, they then improve upon that by playing with her answer and provoking her again to respond, eventually after a few texts it leads to sealing the deal.

So yes, I'd advise to not ask her out straight away, a good 1st text to just get her response, then another when she replies that's still mysterious and flirty, then on the 3rd/4th try seal the deal. Don't get into a texting marathon though, that's worse than asking out straight away.

MM

 

[Fuglydude]

I think it depends on how confident you feel regarding how attracted you think she is to you. If she's into you...and you execute well, she'll take it up the ass on the first date (hey gotta think positive! )... Just be confident, don't overthink stuff too much and go out and have fun.

Who cares if she said no, you got tons of other choices out there.

Let us know what happens.

 

[stand]

People actually text after getting a number? And not call?

I just got a HB8.5 # a week ago and haven't called and would consider field testing a text right now. I want to hear a few more opinions on this though.

 

[Obsidian]

don't text her. call her. Make sure you call her on a Sunday-Wednesday evening. (Thursdays can work if worse comes to worse, but you should try to avoid them.)

Set something up for a weekend if you want, but sometimes it's good to make it on a weekday instead. That way you'll have an excuse to cut things fairly short and leave her wanting more. Also, you won't be devoting a weekend night to someone that you barely even know -- She might not be worth your time.

Also, keep the phone conversation short. Call her up, maybe remind her who you are, ask her how she's been, say something (briefly) that you've been up to since you talked to her, and then suggest a specific get-together. If she doesn't like your idea, have ONE backup proposal just in case. If she doesn't like your second idea, hang up and find someone more cooperative.

Lead the interaction how you see fit.

 

[AFC Savior]

the only way to ever succeed with girls is to not analyze everything like a baby

 

[CrunchyNut]

the feeling I get is that she likes the big masculine, manly confident guys..

any suggestions...

Hit the gym

Other than that, give her a ring, and take her somewhere interesting. Open air ice skating is a fun first date at this time of year!