"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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so yea i just hooked up with this girl, ive only been going out with this girl for 2 days , i think she is pretty cute, i met her thru my friend, it would start as me n her talkin about random stuff, we would be outside at night at a park and in MA it gets very cold in the autum, so i would tell her to sit on my lap so we can warm up, i would talk to her n make her laugh, put my arms around her, tickle her, n she would be cool about it. Then we would talk online n i would tell her shes cute n she would do the same, so im talkin to her online n i ask her to give me a kiss when i meet up with her tomorrow, i said u arnt scared now r u, i thought u were a big girl, she said ya u right so i dont c y not. So i go to see her the next day, and i greet her, ask her whats up, then im like so wheres that kiss u promised me, She kissed me to my suprise. then we went to her friends house, we made out for alittle, her n her friend tried pinning me down on the bed n put make up on me, after that we talked n made out alittle more, then she had to leave. The next day is actually when i asked her out online n she said yes, its been a day since i asked her out, ive been talkin to her online cause she lives kinda far away n i cant always see her, idk if i m saying the right things online, i have asked her what she likes in me, all she would say is i really like u, she would ask me the same question, and i would give like a longer descriptive answer, idk if i should do this, ive also asked her how far she has been with a guy, she sais she has done everything but sex, i want to know how to get past this barrier, ive also asked her if she was good at giving head, i kinda let this convo turn into me asking her to give me head, she said maybe, i wanna know how to make her say yes, thx guys:crazy:
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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S.Y.L

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2 days and your asking...

Wait a bit.
 

Koheal

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u think??? is there anything else u would recommend me doing to keep this girl interested, I want to get some action from this girl
 

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You're not doing so well in your English class, I believe. :crackup:
On a more serious note, though...

I wouldn't have asked her out online. That alone pretty much puts "He's too damn scared to ask me in person" on her mind. Unless both of you guys are 14 years old. (Never mind; my cousin is 14 and asked his now girlfriend in person).

The day-breaks between texts is good but I suggest you should give her a call next time instead of a text or e-mail. (People tend to reply to e-mails/texts with things they would never, or rarely, say in person or through a phone call).

Besides that, I think you're doing good.

-VdoubleR
 

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sweet thx for the advice, i plan on taking this girl by suprise
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yea,I agree with VdoubleR,once in a while you can send her a text but if you cant see her in person and you wanna talk,give her a call.And you should of never asked her for the kiss,even tho you got it and you should of never asked her for head.You should never be asking a girl for those thing,you should suggest or insinuate.
 

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thx man, i do talk to her on the phone, idk y she likes to talk on aim alot tho, she asked me to take a shower wit her but i wasnt there, so im like i suggest that u take a shower with me when u come to my house n shes like ok
 

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Sounds good,technology is good when its use,not abused.She likes talking more on aim cause she can just type away how she really feels but she might have a hard time expressing how she feels face to face.More action,less talking,if you gotta do aim,try to keep it short,you gotta give her some time to wonder about you.
 
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