gonnamakeachange
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I want to hear some specific situations where you had a girlfriend and started getting noticed and chatted up by other women. Or it snowballed into having plates.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tell me exactly how does having one women bring more women?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SleepyRangerMedic82D
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Bottom line, it makes you appear desireable to other women. All women want what they can't have or what other women have. Pretty much as simple as I can explain it. I'm sure someone will type a few paragraphs explaining it..
gonnamakeachange
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What I'm trying to find out is if I go out with a girl, will I start noticing more looks from women?
I'm assuming if the relationship ends with the one girl, all the attention will go away unless your smart and make friends with the girls that give you attention so you won't be single too long again.
I just want to hear some stories about how guys lives changed once they got in a relationship.
I'm assuming if the relationship ends with the one girl, all the attention will go away unless your smart and make friends with the girls that give you attention so you won't be single too long again.
I just want to hear some stories about how guys lives changed once they got in a relationship.
comic_relief
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My story is a pretty good example.gonnamakeachange said:
I just got out of a 2 year relationship. Three days after I got out of my relationship, I was banging this 20 year old sales associate. Then I started seeing my ex's best friend. Cute blond with blue eyes. Then I also grabbed up my ex's best work mate to have her as well. After that, my ex-gf who was seeing this wimp that we mutually know, had sex with her and it was horrible. Guess who comes back to me crying? my ex. Now I have three FWBs
all within the space of two months. Also this is limited to a very small social circle. When school starts back up, I don't think anything will hold me back.
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MSwrestler
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I have an example from DR when I was on vacation. I was chatting one girl up, and took her out the disco club and everyone thought we were ****ing back in the room, all my boys started talking about me and the group of girls we chatted up was with them.
Next day I walk into the disco and this one girl, who was super cute blonde hair blue eyes, who I didn't really flirt with or kino just friendly talk, comes up and starts hugging me, kissing me on the cheek asking questions about the pervious girl/asking if we hooked up even when she was naked lol women.
Next day I walk into the disco and this one girl, who was super cute blonde hair blue eyes, who I didn't really flirt with or kino just friendly talk, comes up and starts hugging me, kissing me on the cheek asking questions about the pervious girl/asking if we hooked up even when she was naked lol women.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your_Royal_Flyness
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It's all about supply and demand. (Supply goes up, demand goes down....when supply goes down, demand goes up). This is also true in human psychology. People generally want what they cannot have or what seems impossible. In a more "real" example, say you have a girlfriend or a friends with benefits--chances are, you will be more laid back in your demeanor and more smooth in your approaches with her and other women.
More than that, your overall energy and aura changes. Even on a scientific level, studies have shown that women are subconsciously attracted to men's pheromones, which surround us after having sex. When you combine all of these things, you will see it is quite easy to attract more female attention if you're already "dealing" with another woman.
There have been many times where I'll go out AFTER having sex. First off, I'm more calm and nonchalant. And in a social setting around other "thirsty for p*ssy" guys, it's that much easier to stand out.
More than that, your overall energy and aura changes. Even on a scientific level, studies have shown that women are subconsciously attracted to men's pheromones, which surround us after having sex. When you combine all of these things, you will see it is quite easy to attract more female attention if you're already "dealing" with another woman.
There have been many times where I'll go out AFTER having sex. First off, I'm more calm and nonchalant. And in a social setting around other "thirsty for p*ssy" guys, it's that much easier to stand out.