Tell me about your successful cold approaches

[AlmostThere!]

Success means getting a phone number and seeing the girl at least once.

I'm particularly interested if you approached a girl in an unlikely situation. A situation which didn't offer a real opportunity for conversation but you made it happen anyway.

Also, if you have accounts where you thought a certain girl would be *****y (an HB9 or HB10) but she fooled you and was actually very nice...



The reason for this thread is building a social circle and having access to different girls will be slower than I thought. I can't wait around for that to happen and not meet any chicks in the meantime.

 

[dj_china]

see my FR with HB9 (its pretty early so you won't have to read that much)

honestly though, I find it difficult to develop social circle game from these -- only after knowing her for two months did I finally meet more of her friends. otherwise it was her meeting my friends or just us meeting alone...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Success means getting a phone number and seeing the girl at least once.

I'm particularly interested if you approached a girl in an unlikely situation. A situation which didn't offer a real opportunity for conversation but you made it happen anyway.

Also, if you have accounts where you thought a certain girl would be *****y (an HB9 or HB10) but she fooled you and was actually very nice...



The reason for this thread is building a social circle and having access to different girls will be slower than I thought. I can't wait around for that to happen and not meet any chicks in the meantime.

For me I'm giving these women an opportunity to meet me so yes, I've been in many so called "Awkward" situations and #closed. Whether it's 4am on a subway, chick in a taxi, chick on her cell phone, chick in an all girl store, chick in makeup shop, etc.

My favorite type of women are the ones who look bitvhy and once again it's an opportunity for them to meet me so of course there very nice.

For me I play more of the social circle route since I'm not interested in dating a particular girl or wasting time on some random chick. So generally I'm just social with everyone, #closing women who seem cool enough and have them all hang out with me. Whoever comes, comes...

As a result I end up having lots of women who like me and also a social network that gets bigger and bigger. One example is a wealthy woman from sweden who basically stays in NY months on end. She tends to always invite me to private fashion events, high end clubs, etc. She also introduced me to her close friend who's a fashion designer.

This was all the result of being social, screening to see if they meet my standards in anyway and also understanding my own life and what I want to do in life.

 

[mylastbreath]

For me I'm giving these women an opportunity to meet me so yes, I've been in many so called "Awkward" situations and #closed. Whether it's 4am on a subway, chick in a taxi, chick on her cell phone, chick in an all girl store, chick in makeup shop, etc.

My favorite type of women are the ones who look bitvhy and once again it's an opportunity for them to meet me so of course there very nice.

For me I play more of the social circle route since I'm not interested in dating a particular girl or wasting time on some random chick. So generally I'm just social with everyone, #closing women who seem cool enough and have them all hang out with me. Whoever comes, comes...

As a result I end up having lots of women who like me and also a social network that gets bigger and bigger. One example is a wealthy woman from sweden who basically stays in NY months on end. She tends to always invite me to private fashion events, high end clubs, etc. She also introduced me to her close friend who's a fashion designer.

This was all the result of being social, screening to see if they meet my standards in anyway and also understanding my own life and what I want to do in life.

I have this idea in my head that it's socially unacceptable to ask to see a person or get their contact details upon first meeting. How do you transition from complete stranger to a person they may want to see again in the future? This goes for men and women.