"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tell me about your halloween night. What went down?

Warrior74

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Look, I was out trick or treating in the suburbs with my daughter and her friends, me and some of the other dads had a few beers and called it a night. After I put my daughter to bed my FB came over and stayed for a few hours.

I know you guys got better stories to tell than that. So who did something wild and crazy for Halloween!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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synergy1

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Nothing too crazy, but did manage to enjoy the night on the town dressed up. The goal was to get my wheels going again and get back into the game. Even several drinks in, I was proud I managed not to get desperate and talk to fuglies. A few chicks seemed interesting to talk too, but for whatever reason the conversations were broken off, and I did not see the point of pursuing it. I did manage a # close on a hottie, but the embarrassing thing was I already had a chick w/ her name in my phone...not good when you are adding their number in front of them. She seemed cool, and had a nice body from what I could remember ( I hope so). I might follow up on that later on.

All in all a good night getting back into the game. Amazing how conversation flows naturally even though I was drinking...I don't typically talk like a belligerent person while drinking so that works to my advantage. The few times the girls weren't interested didn't seem to get to me, rejection is moot these days.
 

RMM

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I discovered that, apparently, my gym is Dyke Central. So the Halloween party the gym organized wasn't a startling success for me in that respect, but I had a good time anyway and it's useful information too.

Good times.
 
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