"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tell her i have a date or just busy?

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bootypirate250

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So this girl i banged years ago has recently been back in my life and we have seen each other a few times now. nothing serious though. not even a kiss. so this story kinda falls in the category of playing hard to get (rare) and letting her know im seeing other woman (which i am) to make her a lil jealous. for the last month i have contacted her a few times to make plans but she is always busy or something. so the last msg i sent was as fallows.

hey (girls name) i have weds thurs off... wondering if you wanna hang out and chill maybe go for a walk and get some fresh air? ciao

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Hey you! I work all this week but I am busy. I'm going to a show Thursday and Friday. I have the weekend off tho!

NNever had this scenario so i need some help from the boys.

PS im new to the forum , not new to the DJ lifestyle , first post here but ive been reading for a while now.
Thanks in advance for your help.....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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donking

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Given that this is a girl you've already banged, I would skip the games and just assess if she's down to F. This will save yourself some time.

Based on the info, it seems like her interest is medium-low and maybe just wants to be friend. You should escalate hard next time - at least kiss her so you know where it's going to go, if anywhere.
 
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Julian

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too many games son just let her know the deal like "ok sunday night, you me netflix an some shots of jack ;)"!

Judging by her response you willknow where you stand.
 
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