Tell her I am a virgin?

[Jumpman23]

So I grew up in a relatively religious household and was planning on waiting for until marriage. I have had bj's, and hj's before but, not intercourse. I was set up on a blind date with this girl via her uncle. We hung out last summer, hooked up numerous times, and that was that. But we have been seeing each other over the spring. I am actually moving jobs for the summer, leaving this Sunday. For the most part, I really am not going to be back. So I would like to consummate our relationship this weekend. Should I bring it up. Thoughts?

 

[backbreaker]

at least you are honest about it.. there is nothing wrong with not havng sex. you are putting too much importance on something that really isn't that damn important.

Just don't sound like a 13 year old. I went on a date with a girl who was cute, not hot but cute, and had a childish like quality that I digged. this was right before I met my current GF. so we are on a date, and she's 2 years older than me, and she talks about "I am not ashamed that I sitll have my V card"

i got to thinking..."what the **** are you, 13?, no one says V Card anymore. Seriously.. V Card? this is a 26 year old woman talking about a damn v Card.

just don't say V card and you are good to go

 

[TheBaconator]

So I grew up in a relatively religious household and was planning on waiting for until marriage. I have had bj's, and hj's before but, not intercourse. I was set up on a blind date with this girl via her uncle. We hung out last summer, hooked up numerous times, and that was that. But we have been seeing each other over the spring. I am actually moving jobs for the summer, leaving this Sunday. For the most part, I really am not going to be back. So I would like to consummate our relationship this weekend. Should I bring it up. Thoughts?

I don't know if you should bring it up prior to having sex with her because the way it comes off in your post she may think you are trying to use her to get some before you go away. I think you should put the moves on and after the fact tell her that she was your first if you feel it's necessary.