"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Tell her about other girls?

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With my ex, I found that pretty often I'd go to the mall or something, some girl would flirt with me (i'd even approach the girls in most cases, not even on purpose, just kind of out of habit...with completely innocent intentions), and I wouldn't do anything. Well later my ex would ask me what I'd been up to, so I'd tell her of the mall, and all the adventures I had gone on (not just the girls, but just the random stupid sh!t me and my buddies always do there). Well of course she's interested mostly in the parts about the other girls. In general, this always happened if any other intereactions between me and other girls came up, and I never brought it up to brag, but I'm not sure how she saw it.

Anyways, what do you all think about the whole thing of telling your girl about other girls who flirt with you? Not to brag, but just in general.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well if she's your ex why should you care? If you're asking about how to handle it with your next girlfriend, don't. Don't mention that you were flirting with other girls. You'll get a bad reputation and the cold shoulder with most girls.
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This is a question I came up while I was reflecting (not crying about it and plotting how to get her back, just reflecting on what I did wrong so I could work on it in the future). And I'm not even talking about flirting with other girls, a lot of the time it'd even be girls approaching me and I didn't flirt, but they did. Just in general though you think it's a bad idea to bring it up at all?
 
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Talking about other girls is just stupid. You don't need to prove anything through words. Do it through action.

~ivan
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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although saying you've talked with another girl can be used as a neg-hit, it is very risky, and i would not try it, as any hot girl with selfesteem will dump yo ass
 
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