"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tell a sluty girl you had a one night stand?

DJTJ

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Hi
Theres this chick Ive been working with & she gets around I think..
Anyways she knows Im an AFC & only done it twice.
How whould it go down if I was to tell her I had a one night stand on the weekend with a hot chick?

Would she be like... hmm this guy must have some game?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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aftershock

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Don't lie. Honesty is the best policy.

If she's slutty it shouldn't take much effort anyway.
 

DJDamage

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DJTJ said:
Anyways she knows Im an AFC & only done it twice.

Would she be like... hmm this guy must have some game?
No. She will be like "this guy is trying to pretend he's got game to try to impress me".

How the hell does she know you done it twice?? did you tell her that??! because if you did then you sealed your own fate. You don't tell a chick from the begining how many girls you been with but let her believe you been with many girls without giving her a stright answer.

Anyway just because she is a slvt does not mean she doesn't have standards. She is a woman after all so forget about the fact she sleeps around alot and concentrate to attract her like you do any other woman.
 

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Offhand, I can't think of an example where direct lying actually benefits you on anything, including women. Careful deception can be useful, but i just dont recommend lying. And this is coming from a person who makes up his own rules.

If I could remember every lie i told on the fly without hesitation, maybe i'd get in the lying business, but until them, i just dont do it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Exactly what are you trying to achieve by telling her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eccentric

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Guys who get laid don't brag about it to other women.

An interesting story is more likely to intrigue her.

Keep it real.
 

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Now I imagine I'm not the only one here to find something like this humorous--but in all seriousness any female with half a brain is going to see right through any type of bs act. I also think you knew the answer before you even asked, seems like you need others telling you what to do. Is that how you make all your decisions?
 

BlackJackal

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Yea man dont do it. I mean how would you even bring it up without making it obvious that you're trying to make her jealous? Even if it were true it would still be an odd thing to bring up to her even if she is a slut. She'll realize that you can game other women when you can game her.


Never conversate, always demonstrate.:D
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Sosa said:
Now I imagine I'm not the only one here to find something like this humorous--but in all seriousness any female with half a brain is going to see right through any type of bs act. I also think you knew the answer before you even asked, seems like you need others telling you what to do. Is that how you make all your decisions?
This is why I keep asking (without getting a reply) what does he expect from doing this. There's better ways to boost your ego.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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white sox bill

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
This is why I keep asking (without getting a reply) what does he expect from doing this. There's better ways to boost your ego.
I assume he wants to look like he "Da Man" Fvck her good and hard. Let your dic* do the talking.
 
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