"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is the United States the only country where the women are mind controlled by the television set?
i mean, i haven't watched the telescreen in over 4 years, and it seems like it keeps changing the women around. another thing that i don't seem to understand is why women want bring the man down with them into televison realm, in exchange for sex. i wonder what percent of the people on the internet realize that hollywood decides if you get laid or not.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't think so. BUT. I do believe Americanism is fukking up how women view relationships. They've become more cynical, demanding, and require relationships to be very complicated. Back in the days, relationships was meant for survival and companionship. Now it's a power struggle to see who can control the relationship. And for some reason especially in AMerica, sex is the primary focus of a relationship rather than for starting a family. With America leading divorce rates of 50%, I wonder about the coorelation of Sosuave.com/Askmen.com/and women magazines and jaded outlook for relationships.
 

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I don't think it has anything to do with televesion, per se, but rather a sexual revolution that was engendered with the proliferation of birth control methods.

Romance, etc. were all things that women and men used to bind each other via social contracts. Now that women have total control of their reproduction, they can choose to be with whoever they want.

Women generally have a great deal of power in whom they are interested in, but with all the various birth control methods out there, women are sexually empowered to do whatever they want, screw whoever they want, etc. without consequences. Just like men have had.

Men would love to have any women they want. And now women not only have have that same desire to have any man they want, they can do so without the traditional consequences of unfettered action.

I mean, if a man could fu ck beautiful women without fear of reprisal in the form of marriage, children, etc., why wouldn't he do that? And so now the shoe is on the other foot.

Women if today's age don't need romance to keep a man, if they even want to. They don't need to get married, have kids, etc. It's a different social construct from past eras.
 

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Good point Korea. This brainwashing really starts to stand out when you go to Europe to places like France and Italy or eastern Europe and then go straight to the US.

There is a very high level of alienation between the sexes in the US and also between US citizens and the rest of the world.

And this is of course nothing new. If you go back to the last days of the Roman Empire you'll notice these exact same symptoms there too. These are just a couple of ways all great empires express themselves when in a state of moral and social decay.
 

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Russia has some of the least liberated women in the world (mail-order brides?) and a 76% divorce rate. They also have two televisions channels that show nothing but crappy news. I seriously doubt television is to blame.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Television just pushes what the people in the media industry have been taught...asexualization. This comes from economy and society as a whole. It is NOT some evil construct of the media. It comes from people like you and I who have been educated to know no better.
 

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They've become more cynical, demanding, and require relationships to be very complicated. Back in the days, relationships was meant for survival and companionship. Now it's a power struggle to see who can control the relationship

Great point. But I think once you 'get it', when it comes to women, everything makes allot more sense. And as far as who controls the relationship, I think it depends on whether or not a girl is dealing with a 'wussie' or an 'alpha'. :D
 

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The media's job is to "buy" peoples attention.

Therefor, the media MUST tell the people what they want to hear.

And today, society wants to hear that guys should be nice to women and wear perfume. Any media station that doesn't cater to society's demands will be eaten alive.
 
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Originally posted by white korea
is the United States the only country where the women are mind controlled by the television set?
i mean, i haven't watched the telescreen in over 4 years, and it seems like it keeps changing the women around. another thing that i don't seem to understand is why women want bring the man down with them into televison realm, in exchange for sex. i wonder what percent of the people on the internet realize that hollywood decides if you get laid or not.
I disagree. Hollywood doesn't decide if you get laid or not...although they are promoting gay looking men as being the new sex symbols. Since boyish is what those perverts mostly like anyways and big men are getting left to the side.

Oh by the way the internet is seen on a monitor correct. And what does a monitor look like...and how many hours a day do you spend at this?....

One man's meat is another mans poisen.

The kettle can't call the pot black either.
 
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