"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tehran, Iran ...DJs and Sargers, stand-up!

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Salam everyone... just checking to see if there are any guys in Tehran who want to sarge. I'm near the apartments in Behjad Abad on Valy-asar street. There's a lot of good places to go. Post in this thread, because my PM box will probably be full. I'll be in Tehran for another 3 weeks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Salam everyone... just checking to see if there are any guys in Tehran who want to sarge. I'm near the apartments in Behjad Abad on Valy-asar street. There's a lot of good places to go. Post in this thread, because my PM box will probably be full. I'll be in Tehran for another 3 weeks.

Are you Iranian or indegenious to Iran? Do you know the local customs and laws?
 

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Are you Iranian or indegenious to Iran? Do you know the local customs and laws?
I'm Iranian, but was born in America...this is my first time in Iran.

Iran is nothing like how they depict it on American TV. I was very surprised. The police are friendlier than I have ever seen in the US. There are more little kids running around with video-recording cellphones than I've ever seen in the US. More LCD HDTVs, more laptops, more advanced technology...it's almost like Japan.

As for the laws, guys/girls hold hands and even kiss in public, moreso than I have ever seen in America. It's like they want to rebel, so they do it more. I haven't seen one person get arrested. You can do whatever you want here, there is complete freedom of relationships with women. The only difference is they have to wear a scarf over their hair in public.

It's really superficial how they have these "oppressive regulations," and especially how American media emphasizes these. Because frankly, what I've experienced in the past 2 weeks ...you can do absolutely anything here. I haven't seen anything like it in America or anywhere else...and I have travelled to just about every US state except Hawaii/Alaska. I love the US, don't get me wrong, but this place rocks.

Anyway...I could go on, but I'll probably post pictures later.
 

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I agree man.

I visited 7 years ago and even then there was more modernization and social freedom than I had expected.

Iranian police are also notoriously easy to bribe. You can throw wild ass parties there and it may run you only $80-$100 to keep them away.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have an apartment house in probably one of the wealthiest areas in Tehran (Elahieh) and bringing random girls to your home is rare, but happens. Maybe, only acceptable in northern Tehran, ie the wealthier areas, but rarer in southern Tehran since the Basij is more noticeable in these areas. But if you are cought you are utterly screwed, maybe even have to have a forced marriage. Alot of the girls and boys you see on the streets are usually engaged or are married but since they get married early you THINK they are boyfriend and girlfriends. But again, there are Bf's and Gf's but these individuals usually have police connections, government protection, etc.

HOWEVER, there are alot of prostitutes in Tehran and once you get in the know with the local DJ's and players you can literally become a pimp with 100's of girls on your speeddial. I'm currently involved in this situation but it's RISKY and i'm yearning to come back since there's also threats of war.
 

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Wow, I never imagined there was lots of prostitution in Iran. I have always thought of the women as being VERY conservative. I think Persian women might be the most beautiful women in the world. You Persian guys are lucky because you can't really get at them unless you are a Persian guy, and even if they do, their family will be pissed off.
 

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Yea, when i tell my buddies about the rampant prostitution that goes around here they give me surprise looks . But , again, this only happens in Tehran and a few other large cities like Shiraz, Isfehan. Not surprisingly, the women that prostitute themselves do so because of societal pressures and are usually very hot! Sort of a rebellion of sorts...But women in northern tehran all look model like, it's like a fashion show on the streets especially at night...amazing .... Elahieh and surrounding areas contain some of the most materialistic people i've ever encountered sporting the craziest fashion, cars, personalities...
 

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pick up artists are the only true diplomats in the world.

you're doing good (and brave) work my friend.

tell me, what's a country like with no homosexuals?
 

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then again, he's been banned. was he a spy?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Espi said:
I've nothing to do with Tehran, but I find this post interestingly invaluable. The American media is bullshiat.

Are there clubs in Tehran? Anyone?

OMG, the streets in northern Tehran are literally club scenes in themselves. Obviously there are no real clubs but Iranians have keen fashion sense as is seen in the capital city sporting crazy fashion even with the dress regulations imposed upon them, strutting their confidence on the streets neglecting the close eye of the police. Natural rebels ...reallyy
 

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How much poverty is there in Iran? Because all the Iranians I meet here in the US seem to be loaded. Even their kids seem like they're driving new BMWs. I recently heard that 25% of Beverly Hills is Persian.
 

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Espi- Yea i think Americans would feel perfectly fine amongst Iranians since they are dealing with people who have 2500+ years of ongoing tradition and culture and are noted for their hospitality and fine sense of dealing with people. Iranians are the most educated, wealthy, fashionable minority in america which goes to show you that they are very capable of assembling themselves with American society and other Anglo-Saxons and they feel safe amongst themselves.

As for war, honestly iranians like American people but despise Bush and would definitely defend their country if a war did break out. Which probably won't considering current already high oil prices and the ****ty economy America is experiencing right now.

speakeasy- LOL yea i know Iranians do well outside of the country because well, they are forced to work. You see, iranians need to feel some external pressure before they can take advantage of their genius as is seen in their great success in America. However, since we have OIL back in the country to support our every need, working seems like a second option lol and since we are naturally lazy people when we feel comfortable hardworkers are a minority back in the country. But obviously there is poverty just like everywhere else .
 

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Tehran/Iran is the worst place to go sarging. That country sucks in those terms. Men and women are consistently separated in every aspect. Examples: women **** in the back of the bus, men and women cannot be in the same subway cars, women cannot go into the pool halls, they is no such thing as a club in Iran. As a Persian male, I think Persian women are vastly overrated. They are extremely materialistic and none of them have any a$$, maybe some t!tties. On top of that, hair removal is a born hobby for them. Don't waste your time guys.
 

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this thread is quite interesting, persiangino could you post some more about what its like in tehran like are the women the same as over here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SickAgain said:
Tehran/Iran is the worst place to go sarging. That country sucks in those terms. Men and women are consistently separated in every aspect. Examples: women **** in the back of the bus, men and women cannot be in the same subway cars, women cannot go into the pool halls, they is no such thing as a club in Iran. As a Persian male, I think Persian women are vastly overrated. They are extremely materialistic and none of them have any a$$, maybe some t!tties. On top of that, hair removal is a born hobby for them. Don't waste your time guys.
I agree...

Street sarging is not a wise idea in Tehran. Even though its become very socially relaxed (men/women holding hands), you have to be real careful of Basiji (moral police driving the Nissan SUV's). There's been somewhat of a social crackdown recently and hitting on women is the LAST thing you want to get caught doing there.

BTW, mixed-persian women always turn out extremely hot. Full-blood Persians, its hit or miss.
 

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Iran was more westernized when the Shah was there. It took some steps backward. But according to Iranian leaders, there are no gay people there! Two thumbs up for that!
 
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