"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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harhar

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I've spent a long time fixing myself, making myself more confident and letting go of insecurities.

I've started getting results, few hook ups at parties etc., but im not yet at the point i want to be

i haven't really focused on techniques as much as i have on mindset and raising my confidence, i feel im now at a stage where i can start using techniques as ive got a solid foundation.

so i was just wondering what are the techniques a "Don Juan" would use, specifically in high school. I've done a a few searches but havent found any threads with a list of them.

Ive heard of:
****y and funny
Push pull
Kino

but thats about it.

I'd appreciate anymore techniques that people could tell me so i can read up on them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lumberyard

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Rather than trying to have a list of techniques to use, having strong confidence and ability in even 1 can often be more applicable. ****y funny, push pull, and kino are more than enough.

****y funny + push pull with minor kino is enough 90% of the time. Find which style you like best and stick with it, being comfortable with what your doing will not only ease any pressure on you but the girl will feel that you are just being yourself.
 

TheEnergizer

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uhhh, read the DJ bible. spluhh lol. and why did you post this twice?

but yeah lumberjack is right those 3 things are really all you need. other than that you really dont need techniques. its more about youre inner confidence and stuff like that.

oh yeah except dont forget DHV imo thats a good one cuz it makes her work harder for you and try to impress you more... look it up on here. cant really think of any other important ones right now those 4 are all you need... just had to add that one lol.
 

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Someone mind explaining push/pull to me? I looked and can't seem to find it here. Couldn't find DHV either.
 

Scar Tissue

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Push/pull can be a bit complex but is successful because it gives a roller coaster ride of emotions that girls enjoy. It keeps her wondering "does he like me?" In my humble opinion its more about your body language than what you say when your push/pulling. The distance between the two of you. The amount of eye contact you give her. How interested and how much you smile. You act almost disinterested for a few minutes and then all of a sudden you shower her with attention.

DHV stands for demonstrating higher value. You need to convince her that your social value is higher than hers. If you convince her that your higher than her on the social latter and you will have her eating out of your hand. You say things that turn the table on her, example---If your at a party and she asks if you want another drink you can say "whoa hold on, are you trying to get me drunk so you can take advantage of me? because im not that easy"
A line like that works magic on girls on many different levels. Negging is considered part of DHV because you are lowering her value slightly. FYI i almost never neg, it just doesnt seem to work for me


Read up on eye contact, how to give it and what the different ways you will recieve it mean.

Lastly understand the importance of being able to identify opportunities and successfully isolate girls so you can Fvck-close. Sex is not a possibility until you have a proper sex location to take her to. Many guys get hung up on this part.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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fckmyashol

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have u heard of the vampire technique?

eat her out when shes on her period. get all the blood in ur mouth and laugh.

works like a charm.
 

john paul

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fckmyashol said:
have u heard of the vampire technique?

eat her out when shes on her period. get all the blood in ur mouth and laugh.

works like a charm.
get a life. you look like a loser wasting time on here
 
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