Techniques to get a girl in her sexual state ?

[Wiesman44]

The term 'sexual state' has been floating around the board a lot lately in the past few days.

I'm curious as to what techniques you all use to get a girl in her sexual state. Now if any of you have ever been alone with a girl, talking, watching a movie, and whatnot, you know that only smiling and eye contact, is not going to get you anywhere. Just might allow you to kiss her, but she feels nothing. How do u get her in teh sexual state:


Here's the senario you are in.... Please explain from here, how you would get this girl into the sexual state....

Senario:
Your alone with a girl, 2nd date, on the couch with her, watching a movie at your apartment. You both like each other, thats known, no need to bs about that. You are not currently cuddling or touching her.

EXPLAIN: How do you get a girl into her sexual state from here ?



this is my usual technique: if im close to her on the couch, i will usually put my hand on her thigh, subtly of course. Slowly i will just move my finger in small movements along her thigh. Gradually I'll move up to longer movements, add fingers, til i'm rubbing her inner thigh with my hand. If start rubbing all it once, you screwed it up. Beginning with one finger and moving gradually to your hand will make her comfortable with it. This will tease her a LOT. This will make her initiate strong kino back. Soon she will be begging you to kiss her and its all Gravy from there !


Now you all explain what YOU would do.

 

[ARK]

Recent experience with this, I watched her body language and slowly moved over to her as the movie goes. I notice she does the same and eventually our hands moved over enough that we start holding hands by the time the movie is over. I lean in for the kiss 90% and she follows with the other 10%. Then she cuddled up with me.

AHEM, since when is holding hands not Kino? This was the third date. (We had some kino on date 1 and 2)

 

[spider_007]

you are skiping a step, and it's a big one.

KINO

She has to be confortable when your touching her. When she is comfortable she will return the touching........and then one thing after another..........

 

[Alpine]

Strangely, breathing down her neck seems to move things along.

The PsyOps shortcut might be asking her if she can remember the last time she was really excited. Then ask what was it like.

Trouble is it's a process, with lots of bases. No one thing will work on it's own. Luckily most of it come fairly natural. If you keep getting stopped at the same point with different girls though, identify the problem for god sake so you can find a solution.