"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Techniques for different types of girls?

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I understand that if you're handling a chick who is on top of her pedastal, think's she's the ****, enjoys the ego boost she gets from AFC's, you want to show interest by eye contact, kino, etc, but still act as though you could leave and not give a **** if you see her again.


But what if you're dealing with a normal chick who doesnt go around getting ego boosts? she's hot, but doesnt have guys hanging off of her. Doesnt necessarly know, and take advantage that she's attractive?

Do I still flirt, use kino, make fun, tease, and still stay away enough to make her miss me?


So the question is, how do I treat different girls differently to attract them? based on what type of girl they are?

Thanks for any input!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Every girl ends up needing to be treated the same. There are certain "things" you can do to each girl, certain amounts of C&F, Push/Pull, Kino etc that each girl can tolerate. There is no SET technique. You need to learn to judge body language, speech, etc. and make your moves based on how she reacts.
 

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What's C&F and push/pull? Where can I read up on what these are? I know what kino is however
 

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****y/funny is bustin a *****es balls, teasin them. its all over the DJ bible, read that ****! push n pull iz like 2 steps forward 1 step back. Actin like u wanna **** tha girl so bad you cant get off of her, then next thing you know shes actin like she wants you to stop. ACT like you dont givea **** if you hit the ***** or not. Act as if you can get it any time you want and ANY female you WANT. When she resists, behave like you dont need her ***** bad enough to bend over backwards. Make her think you arent interested in whether shes alive or not occasionally, then come back and act like youll die if you dont **** her (then repeat). - itll turn her on and make her wish youd try to stick your **** in again. Thank me when she becomes an obsessed girl with wet panties beggin to get ****ed!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Easy way to cuss and not get it edited. Type sh*t instead of the actual word.

C&F = ****y and Funny


Everything you need is covered in the bible. I'm up to giving you some extra advice AFTER you read that stuff and PM me.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Every girl ends up needing to be treated the same.
*BUZZ* Wrong. Sorry to burst your bubble.

You can NOT treat every girl the same. Why? People react differently to different things. Plus, the situation, mood, and environment will differ. Can you do the exact same thing to a girl in a super market that you could to a girl in the club?
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Easy way to cuss and not get it edited. Type sh*t instead of the actual word.
yea Ill keep that sh*t under consideration
 

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Eternal said:
*BUZZ* Wrong. Sorry to burst your bubble.

You can NOT treat every girl the same. Why? People react differently to different things. Plus, the situation, mood, and environment will differ. Can you do the exact same thing to a girl in a super market that you could to a girl in the club?

Approaches are different, but the basic treatment is the same. Don't be a p*ssy. Stand up for yourself. Be confident. C&F. Keep things fun. etc. That's what I meant. If you read the rest of the post, I mentioned taking the specific items into consideration such as body language, speech etc. I figured location and any other situation specific items would automatically be assumed by the "etc."
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Approaches are different, but the basic treatment is the same. Don't be a p*ssy. Stand up for yourself. Be confident. C&F. Keep things fun. etc. That's what I meant. If you read the rest of the post, I mentioned taking the specific items into consideration such as body language, speech etc. I figured location and any other situation specific items would automatically be assumed by the "etc."
You can never assume things around here.

Your basics seem decent though. You kind of did say the same thing three times though.

"Don't be a p*ssy/Stand up for yourself/Be confident."

But there is one thing I need to say. EVERY situation is different because of the location. So that means that you are always doing something based on the location, right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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